why cheat?

Question

I don't get it
if ur happy in a relationship y mess it up
if ur not y not end it
if u kno ur gonna hurt them y make it worse

Answer 1

Ive been feeling that way all my life.. Unfortunately, some people like the thrill of sneaking around with the possibility of getting caught being naughty, its called living dangerously or recklessly. It really does damage good relationships that could have been saved if people would just open their daggone mouths and communicate their needs and wants. Then again some men/women are never satisfied with what they have. No matter how good sex is, how the relationship is going, they always feel that their is something lacking when thats the not the case. Maybe the problem lies within themselves but im not a psychologist so i wont even go there.. Good question though..

Answer 2

Low self-esteem. Everyone likes something about a relationship, but cheaters don't want to address the problems openly. Instead, they take out the self-hate and angst by cheating. It's personal therapy for those that can't come to terms with life.

Answer 3

You're absolutely right. Unfortunately, there are too many a** holes out there who find cheating to be like a game for them. Pathetic...

Answer 4

i agree with u and to me it sounds like u have bn cheated on or if not u no someone tht has and we will neva no y pl do it but it happens and as they say **** happens u just move on. u no if she/he is goin to cheat on u, u can do betta. she/he is the slut not u and they r only givin theirself a name.

Answer 5

to spice it up. know your doing something your not suppose to just like when you were younger

Answer 6

Because it's fun.

Answer 7

I have no idea.