I don't know about any one else but I am just tired of these trifling *** men bringing drama into my life with their lying asses. Even the supposed good ones aren't good anymore. I sometimes feel like there aren't any good men out there. There is a saying that states that "behind every good man there is a good woman". That statement should be "behind every man there is a woman period". Is it me, or does it seem like whenever you get into a relationship with these no good jack asses they forget to tell you they are either married, already in a relationhship or have a crazy ex who calls your phone at 4 a.m asking "who the hell are you?" I am beginning to find that in nearly every "relationship" I get in I find myself going to battle to keep the so called happiness I've found with the two timing loser! And it seems like you never realize it wasn't worth it until someone ends up hurt badly on both sides. Can someone tell me why being a single woman in 2006 sucks so much?
2006-06-23 15:01:08 · 13 answers · asked by Oracle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmmm. Colorful Lady you just may have somthing there............A background search..........hmmmm I just might look into that
2006-06-23 15:18:33 · update #1
your exactly right,however we all have gone through what you have expressed in your question you see we all have to go through that crap to learn a few things in life about men but i finally got my man 7 years later,i went through many relationships cheaters suckers and *** holes but you know your man ison his way to you and when he comes your way you will understand why the wait he will be perfect and never deceitfull or a cheater,
2006-06-23 15:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by treatau 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are preaching to the choir here. I have found the same to be true... don't forget those that lie about their finances or are stone junkies or alcoholics... still, I am trusting that there are still "a few good men out there" but we girls just have to learn how to start fishing from the right watering holes. After my last fiasco with "my user, boozer, and loser", I took up some evening community education courses and met some very interesting gentlemen that I have enjoyed friendships and casual dating with... oh, and I have learned how to discreeting do background checks... amazing the information you can find for free on the internet (i. e., marriages, divorces, criminal history, civil lawsuits, property searchs). It has really helped me to toss the "fish" back that aren't such a good catch.
Good luck.
2006-06-23 15:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by wonderful1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you on this issue, and I don't honestly have an answer to your question as to why men are that way. It might be that we have found that we can get the milk without buying the cow, or why should we care? It's never going to work anyway! I sympathize with you, but I still believe that out there somewhere there are some good men.....just waiting on a nice lady.
2006-06-23 15:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you fall in love easily. Take your time girl.
When you listen to their story, watch how often they blink. Liars blink often and they look down when they know deep inside that they are not truthful to you.
Decent men are out there.... believe me....... (well you don't know me, so how can you) just have to dig 'em out of the crowd. Don't paint them all with the same brush.
It is unfortunate you had bad experiences... look at the bright side - the bad is over. The good has taken over. From this point forward you are going to meet only "good" guys because you have paid your dues. You're wiser for it.
Its time to collect.
2006-06-23 15:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound like I am being a jerk, but I swear I am not trying to be. You are dating the wrong guys.
I started seeing this girl recently and I told her before our first date that I try not to burden my girlfriends with the crap that happens in my life. I have been successful at it...but she gets curious. I tell her what she wants to know but I try not to make it overly dramatic.
However, when I live with someone it is almost impossible to insulate them from it and that is unfortunate.
My advice? Date. Don't hook up. Wait for them to show their true colors BEFORE you give yourself to them. It'll save you a lot of heartbreak and drama.
2006-06-23 15:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by contrafilms 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are saying, but fortunately these people around here know how I am and know that I'm not going to deal with their drama. (They also know that I don't play no games..know what I'm saying!) As women in 2006, we should stop letting these dog *** men try to bring unwanted drama into our lives. One piece of advice..PUT THEY ASSES OUT...they'll learn!
2006-06-23 15:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just have not found the right person, maybe you should take a break and make sure you still know who you are, and what you want in life, it sounds to me like you have lowered your standards and need to set them higher again, i learned not to settle for less and it got me a wonderful life as a wife with my husband, so review your life and get your self on the right track again, and dont settle for less than what you deserve.
2006-06-23 15:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reality check. It's the other way around boo. Just looking out for us guys.
2006-06-23 15:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by ravinaznrich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have just told the story of my life girl. these guys think that they are such a gift when in reality they haven"t matured past age three and they are missing their mommies >WE NEED REAL MEN NOT LITTLE BABIES:)
2006-06-23 15:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by zarandipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i stopped dating just b/c of the drama. well, that's one of the many reasons. lol. :)
2006-06-23 15:05:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋