2006-06-23 14:39:49 · 36 answers · asked by Davian 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Act like a man and be there for her.
DO NOT RUN AWAY FROM THIS!
2006-06-23 14:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. Talk with her about how she feels and see if she is also open to hearing about your feelings. One thing is for sure, you need to be there for her no matter what. Put everything else on the back burner because you have a baby on board and this takes precedence over anything else. Most important, don't piss her off or say anything that can be interpreted as inconsiderate. She's carrying your child and your future in her belly and it would be much better to have her in your corner as a friend rather than an enemy at this point. You never know what can happen so better to team up with her and support her the best you can. Good luck!
2006-06-23 14:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others You should be a man and accept the responsibility. You are going to be a father.
BE A MAN and except the fact that you are bringing a child into the world with your girlfriend and get help with a counselor.
If you and her prepared didn't prepare for this, well you better get some help.
Best of luck
2006-06-23 14:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the father, you need to stand by her and be there for her thru the 9 months, delivery and a lifetime of wonderful things that will occur with this bundle of joy.
If you are a girlfriend of hers, than I suggest the only thing to do is, still be her friend. Don't turn your back on her. She needs support and not criticism. If she is your friend , than she should be your friend now more than ever. Her being pregnant does not have anything to do with your friendship.
2006-06-23 15:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by Nana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really tough question!!! My opinion If I was 15-18... of age I would have the newborn and put the baby up for adoption for adults who can't have childern... If I was 18-25.. have your parents take care of the newborn as you get your life going.... that's the only advice i give you my friend.... remember having a baby should be a blessing!!!!!
2006-06-23 14:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by xxblackhorse78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how old are you? You need to give a little more detail for someone to help but i guess i could say that you should be there for your girlfriend all the way till the baby comes out and help her care for it also. Be a great father to it and love her and the baby.
2006-06-23 14:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive of her. Go with her to her dr appointments. Be there to help her when she needs it. Get someone to help you if you need someone to talk to or lean on. Be a good person and don't leave her behind. She needs you at this time. Having a child is a life changing experience. You did the deed. Now you need to stand behind what you did.
2006-06-23 14:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by anonymousenlightenedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you helped her get pregnant and you were not asking what you should have done then, looks like you knew exactly what to do !
stick by her, support her and this baby and work hard to take care of them. Takes a man to be a daddy and a boyfriend !
2006-06-23 14:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by tara t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to the clinic so she can get checked and start her appointments..... thats what i did! you want the baby to be healthy and you dont want anything happening to ur girlfriend so she should go get checked asap, and if u 2 are under 18 the clinic/health dept. wont say anything to your parents at all.. hope this was helpful! good luck.
2006-06-23 17:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to change your mind set. Your girlfriend didn't just get pregnant all by herself ... correct? What you meant to say is that you got your girlfriend pregnant. Say to yourself
out loud a few times.
"I got my girlfriend pregnant."
Accept the responsibility.
2006-06-23 14:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it your baby or not? If it is your baby, then you have to be there for her financially and physically and it would be better if you were there for her emotionally.
If it is not your baby, then the choice is yours. You can either stand by her and raise the child as your own, or you can dump her and move on with your life. Depends on whether or not you love her and whether or not she's sorry for cheating on you, I guess.
2006-06-23 14:47:15 · answer #11 · answered by pritti_dayzee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋