Once I found that I still loved my boyfriend Forrest I realized he was dating my best friend. How can I get over this. How do I win him back?
2006-06-23 14:25:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give up any hopes of "winning" him back.
However, if you are on speaking terms with him (or rather, he is on speaking terms with you), you could tell him that you realize you were wrong to do what you did to him. Most likely, he will not take you back, but it will bring some of that ever-elusive "closure" to the situation.
Put yourself in his place .... could you truly trust again someone who hurt you in such a way? Go on with your life and learn from experience.
2006-06-23 14:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, try to find out whether he has feelings for you. If he does so maybe you might have a chance to return him. Why did you break up with the guy when you weren't so sure about your feelings? It is not good to be hasitant with your actions without thinking twice. If he is a lighthearted guy and understands that you were in a state of confusion, I am pretty sure he will forgive you. If he doesn't have any feelings for you, so it is a waste of time and don't you DARE to humiliate yourself. You will humiliate all the femile sex. If he doesn't care about you, I would suggest to look for some other reliable person who will be a comfort to you and try to be openminded of your surroundings. This is a mistake done by you, and make sure to remember it, and not to repeat it.
Farewell,
Alina :)
2006-06-23 21:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by Alina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could go back to your old boyfriend and tell him that you were wrong to have broke up with him and it was a huge mistake or something like that, but chances are he's not gonna want to be your boyfriend again...and by doing that your new boyfriend may break up with you! I think you should just move on.
2006-06-23 21:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by vincent34543 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really still love your ex or is it the fact that he's seeing your best friend? It sounds like the same old adage, "I don't want him, but I don't want anyone else to have him either...." Sounds as if it may be a bit late. But if he has feelings for you still, he'll be back, but you'll probably lose your best friend...and if you don't, do you two really want to keep this back and forth situation going on?
2006-06-23 21:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by kate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-23 21:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't win someone back. This is not a game or a competition. If your ex boyfriend has strong feelings for you, he'll come back to you. You don't have to try and convince him or manipulate him. Let it go. Trying to get him back is wasted energy. Live your life for you not a boy.
2006-06-23 21:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by l'attesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a name like Forrest...... makes ya want to gump ya butt away from him...... but anyways yeah I think you lost...... be more decisive when playing games like that...... flirtation is fine...... but getting in a relationship and then changing your mind is really dangerous...... it hurts others whether you realize it or not....... so they move on and then you are left to be bitter and resentful....... safe to say pick em wisely..... just a thought
2006-06-23 21:34:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be too late. If you break up with a guy for some other guy, that's a HUGE slap in the face. What's to tell him it won't happen again? It's going to be tough, frankly, I think you should just move on.
2006-06-23 21:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Kent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Like I said before, the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, but it's just as hard to mow. You don't deserve to have him back. Let him be happy.
2006-06-23 21:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by waney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you lost him. Thats why its really important to find out while you have the chance. Maybe he likes your best friend better. Maybe you never get over him.
2006-06-23 21:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋