2 months ago, I bought a really cute shirt. It's one of those long shirts that goes down to your thighs and it's a v-neck so it shows off some cleavage. The first time I wore it, I tucked the tags inside and asked my boyfriend what he thought because I was thinking about returning it. He said it looked great and I said "Are you sure? Because I was thinking about taking it back." and he said "I'm sure. It looks great on you." So I took the tags off and kept it. About a week ago we were going out and I put it on. He said quote: "You look like a hoochie in that shirt." He said he was just playin. Then I wore the same shirt tonight and he says "God! Everyone is staring at your t*tties! Why did you wear that shirt?" I got mad because I asked him when I first got it if he liked it and he said yes. Now he gets mad when I wear it. I think he should take pride in the fact that he has something that everyone's jealous of, but he's just embarrassed. Should I compromise and never wear this again?
2006-06-23 14:20:38 · 10 answers · asked by Jenn 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to learn how to play the game. next time he says something like that, you respond by saying, "i'm only wearing this shirt for you baby." or "it's all for my sexy man" whatever...just pet his ego a bit...that's all he's asking for is a little bit of reassurance. cuz when you wear it, he probably feels like you could have all those other guys that are checking you out.
2006-06-23 14:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
Do YOU think it's inappropriate? I would err on the side of caution, but forget what he thinks. You apparently can't count on him for a straight answer and your appraisal of the situation is probably better anyway. If you're not sure, you can always wear a cami underneath or a caridigan over. And tell your b/f to grow up.
2006-06-23 14:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think he want s to hurt your feeling on the fisrt time but the second time when u r out and eveybody could c u i think he gets embarassed and really dosen't want u t o wea rit. If u still want ur realtionship then i don't thin u should wear he was only trying to be nice but he's goin t o think that u embarassed him
2006-06-23 14:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by vickstep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should make him wear it for the night and insult him...if you got it flaunt it if i had it id be doing the same..go for it and wear it..sod what he thinks hes just a jelous man any way.
2006-06-23 14:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that shirt looks TOO good. Just were it when he's not around.
2006-06-23 14:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to make you happy, he dosent want to lie to you but think about it... if he had said ew thats ugly then how would you have felt?
2006-06-23 14:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by Peter R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Get rid of your loser boyfriend. He contradicts himself too much to trust.
2006-06-23 14:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by Stormy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could wear a tank-top under it
2006-06-23 14:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by sweetbolbola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should be proud not embarrassed. do you pick out his clothes???????
2006-06-23 14:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like wearin it then wear it and just ask him wat his problem is
2006-06-23 14:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋