How should i get my girlfriend to like me more, we've been going out for 3 months and it's been pretty dull. What can I do?
2006-06-23 14:14:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 13 anything more specific?
2006-06-23 15:00:29 · update #1
Sometimes the spark goes out, and for a reason. However, let's be optimistic about this shall we? You have to be willing to try new and varied things in order to keep her interested like going somewhere and doing something you've not done together like Ice Skating? Also, remember to balance that with just quiet time with your loved one, and remember to keep communication as a priority. Could be your definition of "dull" is her taking things slow, which isn't neccesarily a bad thing. Relationships shouldn't be rushed.
2006-06-23 14:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Trenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta deal with the dull times. It will pay off two fold in the end... that is if it all works out. Give it some time. I did, it got better.
2006-06-23 21:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by James D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cand o lots of things,start by doing things with her and not everyone else as well,go to the beach or fishing or go do something you two like doing and not just movies do exciting stuff,you can do small things to like pick a flower for her and give it to her,lots of kisses here and there,write small notes and leave them around for her,take her dancing im not sure how old you are but there are lots of things you can do,in the end if things are dull are you sure she is the one for you??
2006-06-23 21:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well geez do you think that maybe you should take her to new places and do different things withher? or maybe you should let her talk about herself for a while. women loooooooooove to talk about themselves!! (i should know i am one) suggest going to the bowling alley or the batting cages or anything that is out of the norm for you both and learn something new together . and dont forget to laugh at yourselves..women love that too!
2006-06-23 21:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone like you more. Just try to do some spontaneous stuff, spice things up with random things you've never done before, foods you've never tried, etc.
2006-06-23 21:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to break up. See how she reacts, if she really likes you she will kick into overdrive and hold on, it will not be a normal 8 second ride.
2006-06-23 21:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and make sure you clearly communicate what you want from the relationship. Be prepared to find out that she doesn't want the same things.
Best wishes and God bless.
2006-06-23 21:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by bobhayes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a fun and nice person and just give it more time. 3 months is not that long.
2006-06-23 21:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's dull and you're getting that vibe like you hear crickets when you're around her then i'd leave.
2006-06-23 21:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by neal091982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good sex helps a little...
2006-06-23 21:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by Nameless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋