together again. How soon should I wait until I call him to invite him out? We are in our 40's. Stupid answers need not reply.
2006-06-23 14:10:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on the reason u broke up in the first place. People do change, but not much
2006-06-23 14:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by bandido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the old fashion approach. Let the man call you. If he is interested he will do just that. Men enjoy the chase let him chase you. I am sure you are a great person don't use too much energy worrying about what some man will or won't do. You have a life, live that and if he smarts up and calls you take it from there. I hope that wasn't a dumb answer. Just my two cents.
2006-06-23 14:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by bebelucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in your 40's you are from a generation that did NOT call guys, but waited for them to make the first move.
Wait for him to call, again, just like the "old" days. How desperate do you want to appear?
2006-06-23 14:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by pamspraises 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really into "playing the game" as most people are so I think that you should do what you want. If you want to call him and invite him, then go ahead, don't wait a week or whatever. Don't let opportunities pass you by.
2006-06-23 14:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened to waiting until he calls you. Make him wait and make him come after you. There is just something about the chase that is not only fun but drives them crazy
2006-06-23 14:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by buttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey life is short and if you had a good time, the next one ought to great!!! Yes, go ahead and give him a call. Trust me he's waiting by the phone...
2006-06-23 14:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by bishopljharris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool.. and think about what made him your ex in the first place.. good luck
If I were you I would go on some (safe) blind dates by answering the personal ads in the newspaper...what I mean by safe, only meet them in public places..don't give too much info out...You need to check out your options before you settle...again...get out more and see people..
2006-06-23 14:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by corkymybottles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not 16. Don't play a teenagers game. Be up front. Call him. If he is interested.. yeah you. If he was just talking, well now you know. Move on.
2006-06-23 14:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i too, am in my 40's
you did not say ''how long ago'' you went out on a date, so i am wondering if HE thinks the same way as you, because he has not called
You need to know, one way or another, so make that call.....
2006-06-23 14:17:15 · answer #9 · answered by statenislanddreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like the guy and he asked if you wanted to go back out and you want to take him out?dont wait long to call seems like you care for him
2006-06-23 14:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋