me and this guy started goin out at church camp we have went out before cuz he goes to my church and this is like our 15 time goin out and at church camp i started hearin all this stuff about him feelin on other girls so i got all mad and i asked him about it and he said he never did that and then he was all mad and wanted to know who said that about him and i told him so he went up to her and asked her and then a whole bunch of stuff got started with me and that girl and him then he said it was up to me if i wanted to go out with him and i said yea i guess. then the next day he was blowin me off to be with whoever . and my question is if i should break up with him or not . but he is really immature and is to scared to do anything like hold hands or anything like that. so wat should i do? but i really like him but i have no idea why i wish i did not but i do so please help
2006-06-23 14:00:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on and find someone with less drama.
2006-06-23 14:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is at church camp, and he's feeling up on the girls, then he's really there for the wrong reason. The accusation of him feeling up on other girls, I believe, is probably true. I really think you would be much more happier with someone else. Too much drama with this dude, sounds like the beginning of a loser. He doesn't deserve you. It's better to be single and lonely, then to be exposed to this drama and be hurt. Find someone new...best of luck to you.
2006-06-23 21:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You met him at church camp- are you a Christian? It sounds like he IS pretty immature, and he's playing with your mind, because there's always almost a shred of truth behind every rumor. He blew you off to be with whoever? That's not very loving. You deserve better. This is your 15th time with him? If 1-14 didn't work, it's not going to get better. There's other fish in the sea- go catch one!
2006-06-23 21:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by betteris1day85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to first love yourself before you can expect someone to love you. Don't chase him b/c if he really wants to be with you then he will make the commitment to be with you. You shouldn't have to play games with him. I mean for him to like you one day and then the next day he is totally different, something isn't right with that. You like him the same everyday, right? So why can't he like you that same way? Maybe he doesn't feel the same way you do and he is just leading you on. I mean you need to see if he is really worth everything that he has already put you through. If yall are meant to be together then it will happen, but a lot of people get in trouble b/c they try and keep something together that isn't meant to be. So I say don't stress over him and let him know that you aren't in to playin games. Let him know he needs to make a decision either he wants to be with you or he doesn't.
2006-06-23 21:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gossip is a sin, now you know why. Never let "he said" / "she said" stuff get in the way of your relationships. There are always two sides to the story. Get the facts before you get upset. If you follow this advise you will have a much much happier relationship with your guy.
Break it off with this guy and try again with the next. We all live an learn that's what dating is all about isn't it?
2006-06-23 21:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by akpilotguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he has broken up with you already, so it's time to move on. Either that girl lied about him, always possible, and you didn't accept what he told you, so he got a double whammy. From you and her.
And you wonder why he got mad. Best you just forget about it, and next time, don't believe all you hear.
If it was true what she said, then you are better off without him.
2006-06-23 21:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should break up with him. you should not be treated like that. i would try to be friends with him still since you guys go to church together and you dont want an enemy there. you dont want things to be awkward between you 2 as well. another option you have is to just simply confront him about this. just say well so and so you know why are you acting like this? and say it in a calm voice because you dont want to start a heated argument. well i hope i answered your question for ya! good luck.
2006-06-23 21:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A dude who does that kinda stuff like "scared to hold hands" isnt ready for you or any girl in the world
2006-06-23 21:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by PhizZingFree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your young, if hes being a dick then whocares, go find someone else. plenty of fish in the sea, and anyway at that age, and im guessing mid or kinda above teens, its normal to go out with different peeps, its just getting experience and screwing around, not serious sh*t, your not f*ckin 30
2006-06-23 21:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you like 12?
And you are not immature too?
srry only really serious questions here like should I wear polo or Tommy H stuff lol
2006-06-23 21:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is embarassed to hold hands he is probably very immature and a jerk. And most likely, everything you heard about him is true.
2006-06-23 21:21:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋