well, i want to have sex but im a little young. my mom tells me that i should wait till im married. i dont wanna wait tho. also, my sis tells me all the time that im the kind of girl that would do anything for attention. the sad thing is that its true. attention isnt the only reason for me to wanna have sex, its also i just wanna see wut its like. i need a little advice. thanx!
2006-06-23 13:36:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Everyone makes such a big deal about sex, because it such a big deal. Don't let anyone talk you into sex just for show. Girls think to little of themselves these days. Your better than that. You don't have to do what everyone Else is doing. It's no good if not with the right one or the right time. Sex is so casual these days. Make a big deal of it and don't rush into it. You can ruin your life that way. You do have plenty of time. Tell people that try to pressure you into having sex that your not having it because it's your choice what you do with your body. Not theirs. Think about what happens if you end up pregnant, or worse you get aids. That is a life sentence either way. Sex should be a commitment for both partners. Lots of men forget that. They just get it and go. So make the right choices while your young, so you don't regret them later. Good Luck. PS. sins are not big or little in God's eye's. There all sin.
2006-06-23 13:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by laurelbush28762 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are seeking validation for promiscuity. Well, I won't give it. You basically know that it is wrong. Moreover, men really do want virgins to marry, the joy of exploring sex together becomes so much more enjoyable then doing "it" because everyone else is doing it. Continue to read books about sex. Where is a G spot? Where is my erogenous zones? What is fellatio and cunnilingus? There is so much more to sex than just having it. Passion and flexibility and also the perfect fit (man) is so important. Try reading the Kama Sutra. Are you ready for love and passion or for someone to call you a stupid freebie whore?. Think! Wait! Let me dance at your wedding for being the most beautful virgin of all. Good Luck!
2006-06-23 20:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by lessie36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a simple question you need to ask yourself are you really mature enough to handle any consequences that go along with sex. Like a baby, Aids any other diseases that come with sex. Your Mom is right to tell you to wait or else you'll be feeling guilty for ever about this as you yourself knows it's not right or you would not be asking such a question. If you wait for the person you love and want to marry you will receive such wonderful blessing! This I know for a fact! My friends waited and they have allot of good thing going there way ;not as many struggles with there relationship. They are truly happier because of waiting.
2006-06-23 20:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by littlins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see that you,ve asked 3 or 4 questions today, Bored? Of course, I've answered 3 or 4, partly because I have a lot of time and also because I like to share what I know, so that what I've learned isn't wasted. The other questions you've asked were good ones to ask here, but please don't ask about sins here. Who decides whether something is a sin or not and how serious it is? It's God, not the people responding on Yahoo Answers. The only sure way to find out if something is a sin is to read the Bible and see what God says. God bless you.
2006-06-23 20:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I can't see anyone waiting till their married to have sex. You could wait all that time, get married, and sex is lousy, and your partner turns out not to be your mate for life.
You say you want to see what it's like. For most ppl, their very first sexual experience is not memorable or even enjoyable. I would just wait till you get involved in a serious relationship and explore everything with him, someone you can trust and who is not using you for sex alone.
Sex is the worst thing you could do to just get attention. It only provides "negative" thoughts and ideas from other ppl.
2006-06-23 20:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by NïghtStalkër_666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ain't a sin, but you are better off waiting, specially if you are an attention seeker. You will get all the attention you can handle by having sex, but it will be all the wrong kind of attention. Every guy will do it with you, but none of them will like you.
2006-06-23 20:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by chaotic_n_cryptic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to do as your mom advises. She's older with more experience in living in this world and she wants the best life for you.
Sex is only good if you are secure and feel love for the other person........as in a marriage. Otherwise, it's kind of cold afterwards because there is no real intimacy.......and you feel very lonely.
Just wait and you'll be so glad that you did.
2006-06-23 20:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are better ways of getting attention. Sports,spelling bees,community involvement etc... As a parent, i understand the sex issue. We would rather that you wait because we fear that you can't/don't see the possible consequences of your actions i.e pregnancy,delayed opportunities,,sexually transmitted diseases etc...The Bible tells us to save ourselves for marriage.They have virgin or abstinence support groups if you are interested .Do your research!!! Get the information on sex education.Make an informed choice.Whatever your choice,peace be with you.
2006-06-24 01:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by wildrover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask an alcoholic or heroine addict how great it was the first time and how they feel about it now.
If you do anything for the wrong reasons (like attention), it gets old pretty quick, but then you've got it in your head that it's just the way you are and keep doing it, even though you don't really enjoy it.
2006-06-23 20:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by normobrian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it is a natural part of life. How do you think you were made? However , you should do it for the right reasons. Experementation is okay, responsibly It is a good idea however to practice safe sex. Do a little reaserch and find out how to have the safes sex possible. enjoy!
2006-06-23 20:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by windspirit33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋