I've found that alot of women are offended if a man isn't turned on or aroused when attempting to have sex. Sometimes, just because you're ready to have sex and naked, doesn't mean that the male will be turned on. Some males require mental stimulation. Some women think men dont need any stimulation.... heck, why do u think men go to strip clubs?
2006-06-23 13:14:49 · 17 answers · asked by pluto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes strip club and mental can be the same thing.... strippers know how to visually and mentally attract a man,,, simply by using eye contact or body language, which is in turn a mental stimulant, depending on how the man interprets the strippers' actions.
But initially i meant, do you women not think that men need mental stimulation as well as visual?
2006-06-23 13:23:29 · update #1
wrong!...no im kidding..usually u feel that the feeling is mutual..u dont wanna b alone, thats fa sho!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-23 13:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question contradicts itself where it says " just because you're ready to have sex and naked, doesn't mean that the male will be turned on" and 'heck, why do u think men go to strip clubs?"
men go to strip clubs to see naked women. so how would this fit in with your asking why do women think men are ready for sex just becuase she is naked.
are you trying to say the strip clubs provide the "mental stimulation" you mentioned?
anyways, i hate it when people answer questions like i am now and not actually answer it. i'm going to leave now.
2006-06-23 13:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by kambria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get offended if my man isn't always turned on when I am. Sometimes he's thinking about his job, immediate famility or whatever. I'm so happy you asked this question... but I also don't believe a man has to go to a strip club either. If he is mature and loves his woman with all of his heart... she will turn him on.
2006-06-23 13:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by kimchi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't we all have those times for what ever reasons we just don't feel like it. Well we woman need more time at foreplay to get stimulation,the way some of us are made.I wish i did get aroused as fast as most men can.
2006-06-23 13:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the guy isn't aroused, then the women has to do something that will arouse the male in hopes of getting some sex. But, it doesn't always work...
2006-06-23 13:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
intersting q.
ok well, the reason i personally get offended is because i know for a fact that i do indeed play the WHOLE ROLL. meaning, i give them mental , physical, emotional notice that im ready to freaky... and it does get me upset when hes not "excited" ... becuase of the fact that IM HORNY and hes not....and plus,,,i know im being sexist, but its true, men are supposed to be horny all the time.... and women, well they like to play around with guys heads...but all in all, theres only 2 reasons why my man wont get up (that i can think of) hes freaking someone else....or drugs...oh oh OR AGE!
2006-06-23 13:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Alex-wine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't expect it, but it helps. The best foreplay is mental and verbal, so i know how to get you there fast. No strip club needed.
2006-06-23 13:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by nappynap70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we do.LOL.Sad but true.If a man isnt turned on, it makes us feel unattractive.But hey...we understand men need visual help.Thats why we strip tease and satisfy orally.FUN FUN FUN!!
2006-06-23 13:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience men over forty are like barking dogs, you can stimulate them as much as you want it won't make much difference.
2006-06-23 13:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I don't expect a man to and other women shouldn't either because women aren't always around when men are either so men shouldn't expect it and neither should women
2006-06-23 13:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every single man i've been with where aroused long before i got naked! and they showed me not only with words but with their body language
2006-06-23 13:16:40 · answer #11 · answered by jucy juls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋