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is my weight of 237 lbs. appropriate for a woman who is 5 ft. 8 in. i am thinking of gaining a few pounds for my relationship. (e.g. i am a bull-dyke and i am the man in our lesbian relationship). is 240 lbs. acceptable for my life?

2006-06-23 13:02:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

18 answers

uhm ok

2006-06-23 13:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

"Big" Sigh,, and I was gonna give you a serious answer. Why do this to us???? OK I'll be serious anyhow!

Appropriate is relative and subjective, and can only be judged by you and apparently a significant other...Sigh again.

Healthwise it's not good. Aesthetically you may not care?

Is the weight a DOM thing? Even as the "man" what does WEIGHT truly have to do with all else in the relationship,,,and I'm not at all judging that. I hope in total you are both happy. I have no bias as to your preference in that regard,,,HOWEVER,,,that being said,,,,

If all things work in a balance, and you are accepted as the dominant partner?, and are Ok with a non abusive expression of that role?, then why does weight matter? Besides that you're only talking about 3 POUNDS,,, the weight of a very large meal,,, which you likely can lose through a single day in activity. We often gain and lose, only what we ingest each day.

No matter all else, use your sense and any emotion you have for another, even in those wild encounters, and be loving above all.

I wish you well.

Rev. Steven

2006-06-23 20:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by DIY Doc 7 · 0 0

What's another 3 pounds? I hope that you are not living in the stereotypical world that bull-dyke / man of the relationship has to physically resemble a man - what's the whole point of being a dyke? Anyhow, weight is a touchy subject, depends on if you are healthy or not.

2006-06-23 20:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bones M 2 · 1 0

No, even bull dykes want to look like healthy men. Just drop about 30lbs and get a mullet. You will be just fine.

2006-06-23 20:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by Divemaster 1 · 0 0

Any weight that you can function and be happy is acceptable. For the lifestyle I lead your weight is horrendous and I couldn't possibly be involved in half of the activities I do, but maybe it is a perfect weight for you. It all depends.

2006-06-23 20:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

im 5'9 and wight 140 but im kinda skinny so you should be about 150-170 pounds so instead of winning pound start loosing some.just cuz you da man in the relation doesnt mean that you have t be all heavy.

2006-06-23 20:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by ◄ZΨΦИ► 2 · 0 0

thats a litttle over weight- you might want to be in the 100's i am 5'2 at 88 lbs

2006-06-23 20:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think as long as you are comfortable with your weight then that is okay but don't gain weight because of your relationship because i think in the long run your partner might be happy but you on the other hand might be feeling unhappy.

2006-06-23 20:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by luckycharms 1 · 0 0

NO!!!! for you in my opinion, an apropriate body weight is 180-max!!! If you were like 6'6" that wait may have been appropriate.

2006-06-23 20:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by brother from QG 3 · 0 0

Just like I like my lesbians

Fat
Ugly
Poorly Dressed
Lumberjack flannel shirt
baggy jeans
Short hair with the part

2006-06-23 20:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0 0

I don't think there is such a thing as appropriate. If you're happy with your weight then why worry?

=)

2006-06-23 20:05:35 · answer #11 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0 0

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