my ex girlfriend broke up with me a week ago.I called her last night just to see how she was doing cause weve been together 3 years.I do want her back but im trying not to show it or sound sad . i asked her how shes been she said fine but shes been feeling so lonely is that good?
2006-06-23 12:15:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's not a good thing, but it can be for you. Find a way to make her feel special and do something nice for her. Tell her that you can't live without her and you want her to be with you--only if you still want her that is.
2006-06-23 12:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by ljones_0424 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that when she says shes "lonely" it could be a bad or good thing. You have to decide. If you guys were sexually active alot during the relationship and now she has nobody to "do," then shes most likely saying that to get in bed with you. But if not then she probably is feeling the same way you are but doesn't want to say it just like you. So if you think that she doesn't want you for sex then tell you that you miss her and maybe she will say the same back!
2006-06-23 12:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because shes been lonely doesnt mean she wants you back it means "shes been lonely" plain and simple. Let me give you some advice my momma gave me when I was young and dating.....The best way to get over one is to find another. I did & it was. I tried out this theory more than a few times. Worked every time for me! Go find yourself a new girlfriend or just try dating. Your ex may not be the one God has for you & if you stay pining away over her you might miss "the one" when she walks right past you. Best of luck.
2006-06-23 12:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sugar Dumplin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u really want to go thru that again ..... im in the same place my x just called me told me he apoligized for the way things happened when we broke up and that he was alone now 2 .....and i could call him if i ever wanted to talk to him ....and as much as i loved him he broke it off with me for a x g/f ....it takes 2 in a relationship .....and they done poved to u how important u are ..or was...as much as it hurts just move on to someone who wants to be with u .
2006-06-23 12:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by shelly h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is a good sign.She wouldn't say that unless she wanted you back. I would ask her,"Can I make it better for you?" That might do the trick.
2006-06-23 12:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not. If u want her back, maybe you should start talking to eachother, asking her how she was doing was a goood idea keep that up and things might just get better.
2006-06-23 12:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be really its a good thing for you but not for her she all alone and no one to talk to are make her feel specally like u use to so u see its a 50 50 situation
2006-06-23 12:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by vanessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Unless you want to hit it and split it. She's just effing with you. Keep your senses about you. Do you really want her back?
2006-06-23 12:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by piledriver911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You broke up for a reason. Consider that reason and move on.
2006-06-23 12:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by TL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very good thing. Servers her right.
2006-06-23 12:18:19 · answer #10 · answered by Kipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋