Alrighty I am planning on marrying my fiancee and want to kind of surprise her so to speak.I have 2 dates I want to set the wedding for.I am just curious which would be the best date to choose.Should I choose out anniversary or should I choose the date we actually met?
2006-06-23 11:02:21 · 21 answers · asked by Førsâkëñ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
ok ok for future she wants me to decide im not controlling her like some think she said it was my choice.
2006-06-23 11:10:25 · update #1
if she wants you to decide...
Choose the day you fell in love with her. Could be the first day you met, could be your anniversary. You decide. But tell her this is why you picked this date. It will melt her heart and make her remember that day forever. Good luck to you both!
2006-06-23 14:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa R 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
First, back off a little on the control. Your fiancee is going to want a say in a whole lot of things. You can propose on your anniversary or the date you met, but to plan the whole wedding without consulting her spells disaster. Give her some room as this is her day too. Good luck and best wishes to both of you.
2006-06-23 18:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow good luck!!
i think u should go for anniversary because it's more romantic and shows u some manners towards her. If u choose a casual date go for when u guys actually met for the first time. Depending on what style of dating u want and her.
Casual or romantic way of date to propose to her.
2006-06-23 18:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by amy k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha, that's what I was going to say, that you didn't really get a say in your wedding date, so I'm glad you addressed that. Anyway, I would say, pick the day you first met, that's sweet and then you get two sort of anniversaries. OR you could even pick a random day and be able to celebrate three special days in your relationship.
2006-06-23 18:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if your anniversary or the date you actually met falls on a Saturday and get married on that date because most people get married on a Saturday.
2006-06-24 00:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by choosinghappiness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The day you met. Your Anniversary is probably a day she would like to celebrate in addition to the wedding anniversary and would probably be a pity to lose. The day you met will mean more to her i am sure.
2006-06-23 18:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your anniversary. My husband & I got married 5 months to the day of our first date! It is very romantic!
2006-06-23 19:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her choice too when the wedding is set.
You can mention that you thought both of these dates were good ones and I think she will find that terribly romantic, but in the end its her choice whether to use them or a different one.
Best wishes!
2006-06-23 18:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really would ask her what her dream date would be, surprises are nice but this is something I think she needs to help choose. Good luck!
2006-06-23 18:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by felicity_pink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should use the date you acually met so every time it comes up you'll remember the time and place you met the love of your life.
2006-06-23 18:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by lillady085 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋