My four and a half year old brother seems to "like" girls. For instance,the girl on the tony hawk game HAS to wear the "humps" shirt(sports bra/tube top).I've also seen him flirt with a women before. Is it normal at this age?Im just curious.....
2006-06-23 10:45:56 · 39 answers · asked by Myaloo 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
With the humps thing i found out he was trying to say hips
2006-06-23 10:58:40 · update #1
hes also very fond of the wemons fitness channel.
The other day this blonde lady walked past him and said "hey big boy!" My brother stopped acting four immediately and said with eyebrows raised "hey'.I could have sworn his voice was 10x deeper.
2006-06-23 11:19:13 · update #2
I have five kids three boys and two girls and they all have there own personality and my two girls were flirting at that age my boys are more shy but by 6 were also little flirts. There's nothing to be alarmed about .
2006-06-23 10:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by twinsmakesfive 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO.
4 year olds should have a natural curiousity about the human anatomy in general, but such displays of sexuality and sexism should be of concern.
Ask your Mom: Do you listen to what he listens to? How does he know what a "hump" is? What does he see on TV?
Mom better nip this in the bud before he comes home, bragging about how he got some in the stairwell at school, got an STD from some "ho", or knocks a girl up and pays no mind to the situation.
Good for you for asking, but now is the time to teach PROPER sexulaity traits and definitions. Have Mom check the internet (do a Google search for "age appropriate sex talk") and get involved now.
2006-06-23 10:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by rouschkateer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. 4 year olds ought to have a organic curiousity with regard to the human anatomy regularly, yet such reflects of sexuality and sexism must be of venture. Ask your mom: Do you hear to what he listens to? How does he comprehend what a "hump" is? What does he see on television? mom greater effective nip this interior the bud until now he comes dwelling house, bragging approximately how he have been given some interior the stairwell in college, have been given an STD from some "ho", or knocks a woman up and pays no concepts to the area. stable for you for asking, yet now's the time to coach appropriate sexulaity characteristics and definitions. Have mom examine the internet (do a Google seek for "age appropriate intercourse communicate") and get entangled now.
2016-10-31 09:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boys were both very curious of other women when they were young. I blamed it on their close relationship to me and that they were just looking to see the differences. I do not know if that was the right thing to do or not, but know my oldest is almost twelve and has began to have interest in having a girlfriend. I think that it is just a stage that children go through. I would not be worried.
2006-06-23 16:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to psychoanalysts, sexuality is a gradual process that starts long before puberty, but in this case i'd say it's more likely that he's copying the behaviour a male role-model.
I've also seen this before where men who are slightly homophobic will encourage small children to be unnaturally drawn to women, usually with the opposite of the desired effect.
2006-06-23 10:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah my 4 year old son flirts with girls all the time. It was worse when he was 2 and 3 though.
2006-06-23 10:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by § Queen Ganja § 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 4...he'll do what gets the best reaction.
At this age he's center stage and anything people respond to, he'll continue...if you make a big deal out of the humps...he'll keep it up until he finds something else.
He flirts because he picked up a couple of phrases that make someone he adores over react in a manner favorable to him.
He's very impressionable...teach him how to clean his room and make his bed...and you might just make it stick and then...
He'll grow out of it.
2006-06-23 10:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son first fell in love at 3. He has had a string of girlfriends since, including my brothers fiancee. I would say it is very normal. Boys will be boys.
2006-06-23 10:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by jonny'sgirl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive seen little boys run sround at partys kissing the little girls ( most of parents saying go on give her a kiss cause they think its cute ) but not actually flirting never really seen that before maybe he is a young starter better keep an eye on him lol
2006-06-23 10:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal I think. My 2 year old nephew likes women with large breasts and painted toe nails. He's flirts constantly in public places.
2006-06-23 10:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by answrwoman77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋