What to do if someone in your family bullies you?

Question

how to solve it without hurting myself cause im getting sad and sad and its been 3 months.

what if my parents dont help me instead they blame me?

AND U FEEL GUILTY IF U TRY TO DEFEND YOURSELF?

Answer 1

Its family, There will always be conflict, thats just the way it is.
Talk to the person about it. if that doesnt help, then try your parents or an adult you can trust. they will help you solve this problem.

Answer 2

This is a very difficult situation to be in. I am assuming that you are a minor. Start by talking to a teacher or counselor at school that is compassionate to listen. Don't give up. Keep searching. The whole family needs counseling not just one person. If this is not possible then get help for yourself.Call different counselors in town and see what your options are.Sometimes families don't want change. Engage in local volunteering, clubs at school You can pick your nose,friends, but not your relatives. I'm sorry this is such a tough time. This will pass and help is out there.Protect yourself from any physical abuse and report any harm.

Answer 3

my younger brother was a spoiled brat. He was also a bully. He shot me with bb guns burned me with hot matches you name it and he probably did it to me. My parents never did anything to him. I always got called tattle tale and cry baby or got punished if I did something back to him. Were grown up now and it would still be that way if I was around him. I moved far away from my whole family when I was a teenager. I hardly ever visit and when I do he always starts a big argument. If I was you I would go to an adult that you trust and that you know will intervene. Everyone in my extended family knew my situation. They would always talk about how wrong it was but no one would ever try to stop it. A teacher, school councelor, your minister these people would probably be a good place to start. We moved all over the place so I never got close enough to outsiders to trust them. I wish I had at least tried. I will pray for you and your family before it puts distance between you, like it did me. Good Luck and God Bless You. If you want to talk to me further you can email me.

Answer 4

Dont feel bad about it.Try and think over it.Is it for your good that they are bulling you?ask your self this sincere question.Is the fault lies with you.Are you not sincere with your work.If you get the answer then correct your self and see the differnace in their attitude but if you feel you are not wronge then who ever is the person talk it out with them.But while doing so use such words which will not hurt anybody and conveys the proper message.dont use any such words which may go against you.Proper communication is the only way to solve your problem .At no cost you should feel unhappy.Its your life.Live happily

Answer 5

Independence is a powerful thing. Make a list of goals you wish to achieve and strive for them. You are better than what people may say. Don't feel guilty for defending yourself. Change your outlook on life. Get yourself a "I don't give a... care" attitude. Reject all negativity, accept the positive comments and say screw you to the rest. If you don't care what people think of you, they can't hurt you. Trust me, I know.

Answer 6

Most of the time bullies pick on people who they get a response from. Change your reaction to the situation. Try to avoid your sibling as much as possible. Don't take it personal (I know it's difficult) there is nothing wrong with you! If it's really out of control and your parents won't stop it, tell another family member (Aunt, Uncle, etc)

Answer 7

if you are under 18........get some help from another adult who you trust! Call the police if need be! If you are over 18..........dis-associate yourself with them. You dont need to be around toxic people! Save yourself and don't feel guilty!!!!!!!!!!!! ummmmm don't know about blackmailing them....may not be in your best interest! I say tell tell tell! Tell anyone that will listen. Blow their boat out of the water....so to speak. By that I mean to let there be no secret about what this person is doing and let them know that you will tell EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!!! And if they keep it up.......keep telling! Stand up to them and tell them that they are truly the coward if they have nothing better to do than pick on you! Be strong! You can do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck!

Answer 8

You need to define 'bully' more to me. If they are harassing you as far as making jokes about you and your family won't help you then I think you may have to get help from your guidance counselor at school. If they are harassing you by abusing you, and don't get me wrong, this is VERBAL abuse, but if they are threatening physical abuse to you, a quick call to your local department of human services will end it. However, you need to have another adult willing to take you in or you will end up in foster care and I am sorry to say that in this day and age you could be getting in just as bad a situation or even worse.
Pray pray pray. God can send you in the right direction for help and He can even send help to you.

Answer 9

If you have someone in your family that thinks for a second they can just say and do anything to you because they think that they can get away with it,It is because you have given them that power and lead way to do just that.I had someone in my family try to do that to me until one day i woke up and got enough strength to stand up to them.No i did not touch them,But what i said made them feel so convicted and small that they left me alone.See...sometimes you don't have to touch people to hurt them you can cut them with words.Also in some cases, the way i handle people that i think are trying to quench my spirit, I pray...Once you tell God about them the problem is solved!!You will see things change in front of you.He will make your enemies your footstool!!You watch and see!!

Answer 10

I think that u should confront them and ask y the hell they're doing it. Tell anyone who will listen. If that doesnt work front and tell them that ur not afraid and beat the crap outta them most likely they're a punk. U can also try balckmailing them even if u dont have anything on them tell them that u know bout "u-know -what" and threaten to tell "u-know-who" if they r really bad then they'll fall 4 it.