What do I do?

Question

How do you say it? When you love them, so much. When they've hurt you so many times over the years. But this, this isn't alcohol, this isn't leaving for treatment. This isn't breaking a promise. This is the worst kind of thing. What do you do when you can't remember, when you doubt your own sanity? What do you believe when you know it's true, but you know it's not. Where do you turn for the answers when you're too scared to ask for help? Who can you ask when you don't want to hurt others, when you don't want people to think you're bad, a liar?

Answer 1

I sencerely hope that the person who wrote about parent abuse is right. Although I felt way when I was being abused by my uncle. So I guess as you can tell someone out there has been in your shoes to. I also know about parent abuse. If I can help you PLEASE WRITE ME. GOD BLESS

Answer 2

I am guessing that this has to do with a parent. Possibly one who has made you believe certain things all of your life that you are just now finding out are not true. Believe it or not, I have been through the same exact thing. You are not crazy, they are. You are not bad, they are. YOU are not a liar, they are. The first thing you need to do is to trust YOURSELF! Don't rely on what anyone else has told you or has wanted you to believe. You need to rely on YOUR memories and recollections, no one else's. Next, start writing things down, write down what you remember, not what they told you. Writing it down will make it all the more concrete for you. Most importantly, get a really good therapist. It has to be someone with absolutely no ties to the person/people who hurt you, and who you can start a fresh relationship with. Eventually, you will have to realize that this person can no longer be a part of your life....AT ALL! I mean no contact whatsoever, otherwise, they could end up manipulating you all over again. Eventually, you will have to face the fact that you basically have to start a whole new life....from scratch, with your memories, and people whom you can trust, that will love you, treat you with respect and dignity, and always tell you the truth. Good luck. And if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here...even if I missed the mark with my advice. Just click on my screenname and send me a message!!

Answer 3

Well, you take your questions to Yahoo questions. No one will judge you and we're all insane, so you'll fit right in. Don't be scared to ask for help here.

Answer 4

family or you can call a mental health professinal which is really a better thing to do because not all family's are close and if they are they my not know how to cope with your problems.

Answer 5

Well

Answer 6

Ah...

Answer 7

wassssup???!!