What teenage girls really want, i'm confused?

Question

i'm 17, and i just wanna know what girls really want just tell me

Answer 1

The bad news is that girls have no idea what they want. They will tell you that they don't know what they want and then tell you that you should understand them and accept them for who they are. Confusing? YES. That's just how they are. Don't worry. There is a solution.

First, women want a strong, confident, powerful man and they want their man to have the SYMBOLS of all that. Strength and power can come in many forms. Status like being the captain of the football team, being in uniform or wearing the current fashion trends. Power like having a nice car, money, lots of friends who value their opinion, etc. These are symbols of being popular and influential. Women know that whatever their men have, THEY have.

Young confused girls want a man who is also strong enough to guide them. They like YOU to make the decisions about where to go on dates, things to do, etc. The trick is that you need to know the kind of things she likes and do and do some of those things. Always make it seem like it was your decision when you really know you only did it because she wanted to.

Yeah, at your age there is a lot of bull$hit game playing but unless you get that one in a thousand that doesn't do all that, you're gonna have to play along.

Girls your age want older guys because older guys have more status, money and stuff (like cars and can buy them beer). They want to be complimented, papmered and protected. They want to be asociated with a "winner" or someone who appears to be one. That's why you see girls with dorks who have nice cars or flashy clothes.

When they are young they are influenced by purely selfish interests, what they think their friends and family expect and what they think looks cool. When they turn 30 they'll realize that the "nice guy" that they made fun of when they were 17 is the guy that want and should have gone for way back when.

Unless you're a big studdly jock with rich parents, getting girls at your age is a hard road to travel. Not impossible but tricky. Work on being funny but in a cool way. Women of all ages like that. Always project confidense but not ********* and have a "soft, sensitive" side that you hold back untill things get "serious".

There's a whole lot more to it and I've only scratched the surface. Books with hundreds of pages have been written on this topic and they only scratch the surface as well. There is lot of trial and error and you have to keep in mind that all women are different. What works for one, might not work for another.

Your best bet is to find one that shares mutual interests with you like running track, wants to work in the same firld you want to go into after graduation or wants to major in the same thing in college. Find some mutual ground and get to know her.

Don't get tricked into being put in the "friend zone". You'll almost never date a girl once she puts you there. They always say they want you to be their friend first but it doesn't really work that way. It's a girl trick. They don't do it intentionally trick you but once you're the "friend" they not longer think of you as a man but "one of the girls". Either be her boyfriend, friend-with-benefits* or regular friend. You can't move from one to another. If she says, "let's just be friends" and you want to date her, tell her you don't do that. You like her too much and just being "friends" would not be enough for you and would be unfair to you. She knows it would be unfair to you and she'll use that to her advantage.

The most important thing that ALL women want that they'll never tell you about is your attention. They want all of it all the time. Anything that takes your attention away from her will make her jealous and act irrationally. Anything like your other friends, hobbies, your car, your job, anything that takes your attention from her she will dislike. Do little things that make her think that you're thinking about her even if you're not. A flower, a note, a small teddie bear. All these things, while costing money, don't have to be expensive to be effective. Pay her lots of attention but don't spoil her with it and make her earn it 25% of the time.

I could go on and on but I won't. Good luck....

Answer 2

Girls want to feel special and the easiest way to make them feel that is to do the following: smile alot and especially when you are near a girl you like....smile and make eye contact..... also learn how to be a good listner, all women want to know that they are being heard and understood. If you keep these simple things in mind you will have a good time getting to know and being with girls. Best wishes

Answer 3

The most unstable thing in the world is a human female age 15-25.

Answer 4

They have even less of a clue than you do.

But I guarentee you one thing:

They do NOT want what they say they want.

If you want to figgure out what tehy want - watch what they DO - but even THAT is not fool proof.

GENERALLY however - most girls want the same thing - regardless of age: Attention from men. Why do you think we wear push-up bras - high heels and pantyhose?

Answer 5

girls that are 14-17 years of age really dont know what they want, but there are some that do.

Answer 6

They want some kinda love and utmost attention I suppose, from the opposite sex...

Answer 7

A box of Depends...

Answer 8

They want someone who understands them and treats them well, they want someone to tell them they are beautiful not pretty. they want someone to treat them with resepect, they want someone who will love them not just for their looks but their personality.

Answer 9

we think we know what we want which is a "man" but in all actuality we're not exactly sure.

Answer 10

they want to be noticed..feel attractive..loved...and a guy like you who cares about their needs