I have just started a new job and have been invited to a potluck wedding shower. I have never met the woman (though I'm flattered to be asked--the department has really made me feel welcomed and involved me in everything from the get-go). My question is, what, if anything should I get the bride? Like I said, I've never met her, all I know is that we share the same first name. I was thinking a gift card to Target, but didn't know if it was tacky, necessary, or how much to put on it.
BTW, I'm thinking either BLT Salad or Ramen Noodle salad (with oriental ginger dressing)...which would you rather have? Thanks a bunch!
2006-06-23 09:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by Jen-Jen 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I think a gift card is always a great idea, especially when you don't know someone very well. If you are uncomfortable with the idea of a gift card, go to Target or Bed, Bath and Beyond, as I know both of those places have bridal registries (there may be other places in your area that offer them) and check and see if she is registered. You don't need to spend a lot on a gift, especially since you haven't been friends for ages and ages. I think that since you are the new girl in the office, any gift you are thoughtful enough to bring will be greatly appreciated.
As for salad, I would say Ramen Noodle, and that's just because some people are not meat eaters, and even many meat eaters are not fond of bacon. I don't know for sure about your recipe, but the Ramen salads I have had in the past don't have any meat in them at all. When making stuff for groups, I usually try to make whatever I think will be most acceptable to the largest number of people.
I think it's wonderful that your coworkers have made you feel so welcome at your new job. I hear so many horror stories about being the new girl, that it is sometimes disheartening. It's nice to hear about your experiences.
2006-06-23 10:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Bronwen 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your suggestion of a Target Gift card is excellent! It allows the bride to purchase whatever she wants. I would limit the amount to about $20. Also your BLT Salad sounds like a winner. Your co-workers are very nice to include you and welcome you. You're off to a good start. Make sure you introduce yourself to her. There's nothing wrong with letting her know that you were not sure what was appropriate since this is your first meeting, but hope that she will enjoy shopping for something special for herself. I guarantee she will honor your gift and your thoughtfulness. Have a great time!
2006-06-23 10:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a gift card to Target sounds great! I work at Bath and Body Works and allot of women love that store. If you don't mind going there, the Anti-Bac is usually on sale 3 for $10.00 or we also sale gift cards. Walmart gift cards is an excellent choice also. Maybe even bring some flowers (for the center piece of the table) and then she can take them home later. Either salad sounds Delicious...I'm hungry!! Enjoy and good luck with your new job.
2006-06-23 10:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Barbie doll lover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can always pick up a gift card at Victoria's secret for $20-25, I think that would be really nice!! yummy, BLT salad!!!!!
2006-06-23 10:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by Wendi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the BLT salad.
Is this woman registered at any store?
A gift card would probably be perfect, but I would enclose it in a little gift to kind of personalize it, as far as the amount, that depends on you.
2006-06-23 10:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by brown.gloria@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't spend a lot and have no idea what your lunch plans have to do with your main question.
As for the gift, a light blue hankie would be nice (something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue and a silver sixpence in her shoe...). She could use the blue hankie at her wedding as the "something blue".
2006-06-23 09:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsinglemom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the group if anyone wants to go in together on something. otherwise, since you're going to be there a while I assume, consider it your first opportunity to show them how much you appreciate being asked.
I like the ramen salad idea.
2006-06-23 10:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by cocoanutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think a gift card would be tacky. Because she may need some things that she doesnt get at the shower and its better than getting them something they may not like.
2006-06-23 09:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by hearts_bleed_dark 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
gift card is appropriate, fast and easy. and no offense, but since its a potluck shower and you dont know the bride, chances are, any gift will be happily accepted and appreciated.
2006-06-23 10:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋