We work together very closely on a project. We have become good friends (he invited me to his home to meet his family - kids and wife but didn't invite anyone else from the project team. Does not seem to like when I am talking to someone on the phone (another guy) and seems to be jealous. He is always joking with me andmaking eye contact. Asking me to lunch and dinner all the time.
2006-06-23 09:42:56 · 12 answers · asked by girl35 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't overstep your boundaries. He's married and you shouldn't be playing with the thought that it can be anything more. Keep your friendship and respect yourself.
2006-06-23 09:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could be just very friendly, after all, he brought you over to meet his kids and wife. Maybe he truly enjoys working with you and finds you a breath of fresh air at work. I don't tend to think many married men who like someone other than their wives would bring that woman over to meet their kids and spouse. But if his feelings are more than just friend-type feelings, you need to back off quickly. Do you really want to be a homewrecker? Think about his wife and their children for a second...it's just not worth the drama to get involved if that is what he's after. Everyone will get hurt in this and, remember, if he leaves her for you, he's got just as good a chance to turn around and do that to you. Keep it professional, and remember that in some office settings, that could cost you your job.
2006-06-23 16:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is attracted to you. You need to be careful since he is married. Have you ever introduced him to anyone of your friends? To see how he reacts. Don't get your signals mixed. I am the type of person that has to make eye contact when I am speaking to someone. And I have been told that it does look like I am flirting even though I am not. You could remind him of a sister or someone else that he used to care about. Try to keep reading the signs.
2006-06-23 16:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are attracted to him. And he is confused whether to take advantage of it or let you decide what's next. He's obviously a happy family man and he showed it to you so you'd have a perspective of your stance on him.
If his wife is better than you in most aspects (beauty, personality and human relations, keep off because he's just taking you for a ride). If you think you're better, then, find the right guy (it's not him). So, it does not really matter whether or not he's attracted to you because the problem is YOU.
2006-06-23 16:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by mug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to your immediate supervisor and let them know he is acting inappropriately around you. Or drop BIG hints about how you think infidelity is wrong and married men who cheat are slimeballs..I assume you want him to back off?! If he is this possessive and needy at this early stage..can you imagine having a relationship with him? Do yourself a favour and make it clear to him that you're not interested.
2006-06-23 16:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by katnip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously married. So you need to do the right thing? Let him know what's up. Which would be to stop. Or not. You make the call. Good Luck.
2006-06-23 16:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by sodapop44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u can't so anything with the one who has a wife so if he hits on u you have to be firm on the no and u have a wife remind him and embarrass him
otherwise we all find are co workers attracting we get to know so much about one another
but dating in work sucks just to warn u
2006-06-23 16:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here, are you uncomfortable, because that's all that matters. first off, this man is attracted to you you have showed all the key findings to a man in lust and its someone who he defiantly can not have. pull away from him suttlely it may hurt him but he will move on . we just dont wan this to become something to big to handle.
2006-06-23 16:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is attracted to you but he is married and will not make the first move.
2006-06-23 16:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by pjthedj247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is and he is also married with children,please be careful.
2006-06-23 16:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋