How do I tell my Fiance.....?

Question

that I am pregnant.....and how do I tell my parents? And who do I tell first? My mom and dad of 19 1/2 years or my fiance of 2 years? O and what is a good baby name for both sexs?????

Answer 1

You should tell your parents first----just say it like it happened, no guilt or sadness, but with an attitude, "we are here, how do we move forward in the best manner possible? ". You are going to need their support as much as your BF's, and not knowing your financial situation, definitely you may need that as well.

Tell your BF later--if things don't go as you hoped, you will need a fall-back, and that is your parents, even though you are an adult.

As to baby's name: Michell

Good luck.

Answer 2

If he's your fiance, you chose to be with him until "death do you part" so I would tell him first. Since you will go thru this together, he deserves to know now. Then, tell your parents together. If you are mature enough, telling them shouldn't be scary. When my unmarried sister got pregnant she bought a card to tell my parents. It was to "grandma and grandpa". My mom is a little slow so she didn't get it at first, but still remembers it to this day. If you think your fiance will freak, tell him over a home cooked meal, in the quiet house. If he'll be happy get him a big cookie that says "i love you, daddy" or something like that. I had Cory picked out for my kids name. If it was a boy...Cory. If it was a girl...Corinna. Either way, it was Cory. My sister chose Chris...either Christina or Christopher. Good luck and enjoy your baby!

Answer 3

I think that you should tell your fiancee first. I know that your parents are the ones you spent 19 1/2 years with,but this is the guy your going to spend the rest of your life with," For as long as you both shall live"plus he's the daddy isn't he and he has the right to know first.
And the good thing is if you tell your fiancee first he can support you when your going to tell your parents.
Names for both sexes well thats a bit tough hmmm.......
Terry
Leslie
Tony
Hope that these helped!

Answer 4

I know exactly how you feel, I was in the same situation a few months ago. Tell your fiancee first, then your parents. Just tell your fiancee that you seriously need to talk, and get straight to it. Telling your parents is the hard part. Things can get a little tricky depending on how they handle things. If you're parents would go crazy make sure you can get away if needed, but since you're already enganged it probably won't be too bad, and you should tell them together. As far as names go Taylor is good for both.

Answer 5

Well I went through the same thing @ the same age....I told my fiance first and we told my parents together...you both made the baby together you both should bare the news together.....I felt very comfortable with my fiance now husband of 10 1/2 years on my side....

Answer 6

The best thing to do is to talk with your fiance first. You and your fiance should then discuss this with your parents. It is important that you and your fiance have a plan in place to deal with this new baby.

Answer 7

Tell your doctor first.
Tell your Fiance next.
Then You and your Fiance tell your parents!
Good Luck
and I like Saint Names for Babies...

Answer 8

Tell your fiance and then you 2 can decide how and when you should tell bothe sets of parents- his and yours. In terms of baby names, for a girl u can go with: Rihanna, Christina or Monique. Boy: Dylan, Michael, Zachary or Kevé

Answer 9

The man you are going to marring and having this baby with is first! He is the father! He has just as much right to the baby as you. Then tell your parents together! It might make it easier for you. As for names..that's always hard because not everyone likes your choices...lol...I love Christian for a boy, and Alyssa for a girl.

Answer 10

Tell your fiance first. Then tell your parents. No beating around the bush. Congrats! I like the name Jalisa Kaylene for a girl and Donavan Jake for a boy. God bless!!!