Sister Help ??

Question

I am 12 and I have a sister who is about 14. We are off and on about hanging out. Please help i try hard for her to like me..... HELP

Answer 1

look first of all she might think youre too young and she might wanna hang out with friends her own age, nothing changes she still your sis but i have a sis thats 13 and she trys to hang out w-me but i dont wanna becaus she too young

Answer 2

Hey Little Sister, How's it going huh?
I know you think it's you who needs to change but, sweetie it's not totally so.
Sometimes when we want something or even someone to act a certain way, it just doesn't happen like that, it's called different personalities, and the same goes for you and your big sister.
I am sure you might look up to her but, in her mind it's like you want to be her, it's a sibling thing and as the two of you get older things will change, some for the better some for the worst.
But in the end it's all love and when you two become young women you may be the best of friends, for now it's just she is finding her self right now and no one can really help her in that area, she will come around, you too will go through it also, it's a part of growing up baby girl.
Just be patience with big sister for now cause the things she is feeling and going through will soon be your turn and she may be able to help you when your turn comes about.

Answer 3

A friendship with your sister is a tough relationship to considered. First of all, you both are in your teens and you both are figuring out your likes and dislikes, and your identity. You also lived in the same house and share the same parents. This is a confusing time for both you. You are use to picking your friends, but your sister probably doesn't know what to think because she didn't pick you. If you really want to be friends with her then tell her you want to be friends and that you would like if you guys to do more together of what you both like. Find similar interests you have with her and ask her out to do these activities. There is this stigma when growing up that you can't be friends with your brothers or sisters but that isn't true. You need to be strong and positive, ask her to do things and if she doesn't then it is her loss. What ever you do don't retaliate and start fighting with her because this will just break you guys apart. You need to show her that you can be a good friend and be there for her when she needs you. She will soon learn that no matter what happens in life, she will always have you as a sister and friend.

Answer 4

I went through the same thing when I was younger. My sister and I are 3 years apart and to be honest we are now just starting to get along. I am 21 and she is 24. It comes with age. She is in a very different place than you are in life...she is probably in high school and a lot of things are changing. Soon it will be happening to you too and when it does you will have her to go to to ask advice and then it may be easier to spend time together. Try not to worry- sisters are the friends you have your whole lives that you sometimes don't even know are your friends. Believe me it didnt feel like we were friends until we were out of the same house!

Answer 5

This gives me flash-backs... my sister and I were the same way. At that age we didn't get along well at all. As we got older it got better, and by the time we were both in high school she was driving me to school so we got to be better friends. We're both adults with our own families now, and she's my best friend. She lives 200 miles away and I don't see her as often as I would like, but we talk on the phone all the time.

Just give her some space, and hang out with your own friends. It gets better, I promise! Hang in there, sweetie!

Answer 6

you don't have to try hard to get no one to like you. just be you and she will like and love you just the same. you have your own opinions and she has hers and to tell you the truth yall are gonna disagree with each other. trust me i know i have my own little sister but we hang out sometimes not all because she likes other things. so give her some space at times and trust she will come around.

Answer 7

LOL- she is your sister, you will always be the younger pain in the butt little sister untill your both in your 30's..... Just be yourself and don't try!! She's your sister, she still loves you even when you annoy her.

Answer 8

Maybe you were just never meant to get along. I'd just say don't give attitude and give her lots and lots and LOTS of space.


Happy sistering!

Answer 9

dont try too hard your sister is suppose to like u. be yourself around her.

Answer 10

just give her some space..and dont try so hard...she'll come around....girls at that age tend to be jealous about younger siblings...its normal...she'll grow out of it...unless you did something horrible to make her not like you....highly unlikely though...its ok...chin up...just be nice to her.....