i mean **** i try to be the best boyfreind i can which im not very good at seems to turn out....and when i try and change i think i have changed my girlfriend gets mad at me its not her fault no way at all.....but i just feel like i keep letting her down and i hate that i just hate it. i honestly dont know what to do....does anyone have any suggestions? please...i beg you guys....i dont want to lose her i love her so freaking much! i would die if i lost her.....
2006-06-23 09:12:50 · 16 answers · asked by Mr. Adoarable Butt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's nothing wrong with YOU. she loves you for who you are, and you know that. she cares for you more than words can express. she always will love you too, no matter what you do. you aren't a bad guy. you have disappointed her though. but there's truly nothing about you to change for her to be happy. she doesn't want you to change. but you have done some messed up things, and you know that. just stop doing those. those don't make up who you are. and breaking up isn't good for either of you, like you said, if you lose her you'll die. she thinks the exact same thing.
2006-06-23 10:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure that your GF is not to blame here? Because you can't make everyone happy, and if you are constantly feeling like your a disappointment, perhaps you should move on. It's not supposed to be like that. You should feel like an equal, not a dog.
p.s. you can only NOT be yourself before too long, and the true you with come out. You should find someone who will like you for who you are!
2006-06-23 16:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Elizoria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you dude, some times things just dont work out, no matter how bad you want it to. If you do lose her, suck it up and move on my friend, thats the best advice.
2006-06-23 16:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to get some self-confidence. In reality your probably not truly letting her down....you just THINK that you are. Be yourself, and thats all you can do.
2006-06-23 16:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by Brit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what exactly are you doing wrong? If you can give me more details maybe I can come up with some better advice. What's your email so we can talk more about this.
2006-06-23 16:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by italian_swim_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! Who cares what your girlfriend thinks you just be yourself. And if she doesn't respect that she's obviously not the girl for you. Good luck. Be yourself.
2006-06-23 16:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is some one for every one, if she dosn't appreciate you then maybe she isn't your fit. Don't beat your self up, just try and when that fails move on.
2006-06-23 16:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by Gizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre a man. Just be who you are and don't change. Maybe you wern't ment to be with her.
Lifes lessons it ok
2006-06-23 16:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to read this Question, then she will realize how much you care for her, and then things will get better.
2006-06-23 16:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by vidalliendo21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww that is so sweet. well ask her what you need to do to make her happy. She will give you suggestions and that could help you alittle.
2006-06-23 16:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋