2006-06-23 09:03:54 · 33 answers · asked by Blah blah blah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on what sort of relationship you have.
That you call him "boyfriend" to me indicates that you at one point had emotional attachment instead of purely physical. Or maybe you use the term "boyfriend" for anyone you are romantically involved with.
However, no feeling is wrong. Feelings can lead to pain, feelings can lead to great joy. But the feeling itself cannot be wrong, it's just your way of telling yourself how you stand on an issue.
I think what you might be asking is if it is a socially accepted way to feel. If you are in a monogamous and dedicated relationship, then in American society, how you feel might be considered "wrong." And even though I think feelings cannot by definition be wrong, the way you feel probably needs to be address with your boyfriend. We are, after all, products of our society and upbringing.
Also, if your boyfriend feels deeply for you, and especially if he thinks you feel the same way about him, you should probably communiate this feeling to him. Communication and passion are the two most important aspects of a successful relationship, in my opinion.
2006-06-23 09:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Eric G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like it if he felt the same way about you too? It's kind of sad when there is no love in a relationship. Love is the foundation of a relationship. Sex is good but it is also wrong to use someone for it.
2006-06-23 09:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. especially if he really likes you. You may be setting him up for a big heart break. A relationship based on sex is not a relationship at all. You should rethink your relationship with him and let him know how you feel. If he is in the same boat then I suppose it is ok. But realize that you may miss the person you are suppose to marry if you hang on to him for too long.
2006-06-23 09:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by amalyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, yes it is wrong to only like your bf for sex. you should like him as him. not like him for sex.
2006-06-23 09:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Treat others as you want to be treated". Will you like your BF to like you for sex only?
2006-06-23 10:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep.try to find something else in him!it hurts you when your bf likes you for nothing but sex.......boys feel the same!!(some of them anyway)
2006-06-23 09:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by maxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be happier if you'd find someone who you like to talk to and be with as well.
Many guys would be fine with being treated as sex objects.
2006-06-23 09:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it's wrong, but if you see it in the other way, guys are only good for that!!... lol
2006-06-23 09:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by Yuri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if u call him ur bf.. If all u want is sex then tell him he's ur whore...lol
2006-06-23 09:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he genuinely cares for you, but if he's only in it for sex then it's up in the air.
2006-06-23 09:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋