2006-06-23 09:03:38 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a broad question.... Define "cheating" is that just a kiss or is it sexual intercourse? Did he confess to you or did someone acuse him of doing it? How much do you feel for him? Do you feel he's The One, or is his just Mr. Right-Now? There's alot to take into consideration here... If the situation is that he had sexual intercourse with another woman and YOU caught him or he confessed to you, then my answer would be NO.... I do not believe that anyone deserves to be disrespected like that, but if you have a friend who says they saw him kissing another girl, then I would investigate on that.....
2006-06-23 09:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by WoWChick 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From experience HELL NO!!! You will never be able to trust him again. NEVER.. Its something that will always bother you. My ex cheated on me and I forgave him and we got back together (we were in a three year relationship) but only after I used my free pass with his best friend. He found out and everytime we fought he would bring it up as if I was the one who started all the s**t. Men come and go and one day you will find someone who will love you and want to be with only you.. he is out there just be patient. Dump him and move on....NEXT!!
2006-06-23 09:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by carilove79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Cheating is a total lack of respect, and why be with someone that does not respect you? Also, if they cheated via intercourse then that means they also lacked any consideration for your health and they have put you at risk for disease or possibly even death by AIDS. Do you really wanna be with a potential murderer?
2006-06-23 10:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a personal decision, but I most likely would not. Cheating creates a HUGE trust issue that's tough to overcome...and far too many find it easier to cheat again, once they've done it before.
2006-06-23 09:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you can TOTALLY forgive him.
Trust is # 1 in a relationship. If you feel like you can't trust him anymore, you're doomed, because you'll always feel insecure about his love for you.
But if you are a confident girl, who can forgive and you really love this guy then it's ok to take him back. Just be VERY clear about your feelings with him. Honesty, with not only him, but yourself is the best policy.
2006-06-23 09:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by ease_e_goin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can but you'll have a boyfriend who cheats. Make him beg you to take him back, and make him work hard to earn your trust back if you're inclined to give him another chance.
2006-06-23 09:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends-- Do you think he is th kind of guy who wont do it again? Is it truly over? Is he worth forgiveness?
Trust is the hardest thing to build back up, so ,if the reason is not 100% forgivable ...Move on!
2006-06-23 09:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by skulrag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on if you really like him. cuz thngs might work out. but you know that old saying you learn from your mistakes, it is true but some people don't. but if he constantly does it you might want to break up with him. he'll just keep hurting you and you'll be really up set and not be happy. but if he did learn and not cheating on you anymore then don't break up. it all depends on him. If he really cares about you.
Eskimo
2006-06-23 09:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by Eskimo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Once a cheat is always a cheat.
2006-06-23 09:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, once a cheat, always a cheat.
2006-06-23 09:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by SOG Wrath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋