Exactly, I had a crush on him before he had a crush on me. He is so cute and has "potential" dimples that change to "kinetic energy" when he smiles. He had a crush on me when I fixed and tied my red hair in an extra-ordinary way. THE PROBLEM IS........is that he never speaks a tiny bit to me. And also, he stares at me when I am anywhere near him. I can't talk to him because I am so shy to do so. But a boy speaks first, right? So, why doesn't he?
2006-06-23 09:00:58 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you are both shy, then someone has to break the ice! Once the ice is broken and you like each other, then it will be history from there. But sounds like your are going to have to get the nerve and go talk to him! Just go up adn say Hi how ya doin or whatca up to? Or find something that you need help with and ask him to help you. That always makes a guy feel good when you NEED them! But you have to break that ice or it will go no where! But it sounds like you have a date coming on if you get the nerve!!! Good luck and don't get cold feet! Just do it!! Or you might miss out and someone else is gonna sneak in and steal him away!
2006-06-23 09:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by nalerij 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He just needs a little confidence. He dose not want to screw it up. So say Hi, You make him nervous, that means he really likes you. If you were not shy I would ask you to go up to him and pat is butt and whisper in hie ear and that's nice, His face will turn so red. it would be a little ice breaker. But you are shy so just Hey. You want to go? where ever you go. But take some other Friends along as well. The group thing is easy when your are shy. Go get a burger and a shake. He will appreciate it, trust me. I did when I was that young. Good luck. Always remember you have nothing to loose. You already are not dating him, If anything you will gain a friend.
2006-06-23 09:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by mike67333 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda sense nothing is going to happen here as both of you might be expecting the other to have the ability to read minds. Doesnt happen in the real world. If you like hiim ...TELL HIM then see where it goes from there. Better to know one way or the other and use the energy you are spending here in the new relationship should it be the case or use it to find someone else.
2006-06-23 09:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the cutest sweetest thing I've heard in a very long time. Hurrah for young love!!
He's shy too. You can begin to cure shyness by speaking first (he'll like you a lot more if you do).
Take a pen to him and ask him if he dropped it. Whatever he says in response - say to him that you'll like to hold it until the end of the day, then he can use it as well.
The next day, take the pen to him and say - it's your turn now.
Don't forget to tell us if that worked.
2006-06-23 09:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would like to knock down a six-pack of beer with you and then try to knock you up afterward. That should start something.
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2006-06-23 09:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start speaking to him. Make conversation about news in general. Or talk about sports like the NBA Championship game. I use to ride the bus or while eating lunch I would flip the newspaper over to the sports section and start reading it first and guys usually approached me. Try It!!!
2006-06-23 09:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by Special Investigator 12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say,but, he isnt going to talk to you...the reason is a little unknown and strange but there are some guys that behave weird.I've been in the same situation as you and believe me, the only thing you can do is either you talk to him or find someone else...
But go talk to him, its not such a big deal...just find the courage and you wont regret it...
GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-23 09:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by hahanos! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an age old conundrum. I suggest you talk to him, and if you don't, assume that the opportunity will vanish forever.
It doesn't make any sense to wait for someone else to make the first move, because they might be waiting for you.
Walk up to him and say, "Hello. Do you think that 'our new friends up there' are friendly or war-like?" No, don't say that! That will freak him out.
Something will come to you.
2006-06-23 09:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't have to make the first move. y'all scream equal rights. just do something before he finds someone else. sometimes guys like it when the pressure of asking someone out isn't on them. if he stares at you all the time , but speaks very little, he's probably too shy to approach you.
2006-06-23 09:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by thevoicesjustgotlouder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they don't. Ease his discomfort and say Hi, I love your smile.
He will blush because he is shy. Then you have to ask him questions about himself. People love to talk about themselves. Don't ask questions that require a yes or no answer. Ask him if he is walking home? Does he need someone to carry his books? (a sense of humour will enlighten the moment, without being too corny! You will come off as self confident and you will have his heart!)
2006-06-23 09:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by peppermint_paddy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋