2006-06-23 08:35:16 · 34 answers · asked by Pacman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes and no it sounds like she has been cheated on before and desn't trust anyone if u care about her enough try to show that u are trustworthy which i think u are to begin with if ur asking this question
2006-06-23 08:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
I am in that type of situation right now. My friend has cheated a few times and I keep trying to put faith in him but he keeps messing up. Really this is all about what you want and are willing to do. If you have cheated before and know you will keep doing it then end it 4 both of you. If you are going to be right then ask her what it will take to get her off your back.? Remember that you are dealing with someone's emotions so ask her to think seriously before she speaks. My man on the flip side thinks that I cheat now which I never have because he has found phone#'s so I called every # in my phone and around to prove that I'm not. Words only go so far. Actions speak for themselves.
2006-06-23 08:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by sxybggr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, do you pay more attention to other females when you are togeather to make her jeolouse? If not, her insecurities will eventually cause you both problems. She needs to feel that you love only her and that she is the woman you want. If you can't get her to realize this than she needs counseling to understand why she feels ensecurity, her family life when she was growing up, a past relationship. ect. Talk to her and ask her to see someone with you, this will let her know that you truely care for her and understand that she has a problem with insecurity.
2006-06-23 08:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by clb_1957_clb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, have you done things to try and reassure her? If you love her then try and understand why she has these issues. Did her dad cheat on her mom? Did a past relationship cheat on her? Is there something about the personalities of the men she chooses to be with that cause her suspicion such as the quiet types? Her thoughts may be irrational but she may feel she has reasons for them even if they are irrational. try and see what you can do to help her not feel insecure. ususally, it's a self esteem issue.
2006-06-23 08:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably on here now trying to find out if you are talking about her :) Walk away dude, if she is crazy now, it can only get worse. Women get attached, and the more time you spend with her the harder it will be to break away. If she always thinks that you are cheating on her then she has some issues of her own that she needs to work out. Don't let her drag you down, there are to many other women out here that would respect you, without so many questions.
2006-06-23 08:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Gizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A low self esteem is a real damaging emotion to have because if she is sneaking around all the time looking eventually in her own mind she will find something that will justify her efforts and whether you cheated or not you will have cheated. Help her get over the self esteem problem or replace her as she is self destructive.
2006-06-23 08:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well PACMAN, if you stick with her, your going to lose this game.
She's manipulating you because she doesn't know how to have a relationship, regardless of her experiences. She's going to throw all the *ss you want, just so you could be kept close to her.
Take it from me dude, what's between her legs is not gold and what you have, she can get that anywhere at anytime.
Save yourself the agrivation and dump her. If you don't, it's YOUR fault.
2006-06-23 08:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the number on thing in a relationship; with out it you have no foundation. With out a strong foundation, you have no staying power. It seems that she is insecure. Her insecurities will be her undoing. Talk to her and find out why she is like that. If it is worth it to you, put the effort, if not bale.
2006-06-23 08:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can first sit down and talk with her and see why she is feeling this way and try and reassure her you do not cheat. if it does still happen then you have to make a choice to live with this or her insecurities or let the relationship go...hope all works out
2006-06-23 08:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by ~JACKIE-ANN ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with it - the girl probably had some bad experiences with trust in the past - try to work through it.
2006-06-23 08:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by maxfs2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope life is too short. Sounds like a fatal attraction to me. She just wants to control you. I am divorcing my wife now because of that very thing. Do yourself a favor and save yourself a lot of heartache.
2006-06-23 08:38:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋