my man was away visiting his family in another state for a week when he came back we got down to making up for lost time in the middle he stopped and asked me to marry him. I know this is not the most romantic way but the first time he told me he loved me he stopped in the middle of sex to pin my arms down and tell me he said it was so i couldn't get away what I need to know is do you think this was for real or was it just in the moment stuff i know guys can get a bit carried away oh and he continues to tell me he loves all the time not just during sex wwe have been together for a since the first time he said it.
2006-06-23 08:20:59 · 52 answers · asked by aeval_anu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HEY EVERYONE HE REALLY DID MEAN IT HE TOOK ME TO BUY THE RING TODAY!! He says he couldn't get up the nerve to any other time. We went out to lunch at thid little place in the mall and then he dragged me into the jewlery store and told me to pick out the engagement ring I wanted. I am so happy it wasn't just in the moment we set a date for next year.
2006-06-25 17:45:30 · update #1
wait until he produces a ring and proposes properly and not in the height of passion.
then go to a relationship counselor for six months during your engagement. Trust me...a good idea. We would have more successful marriages if more did so.
2006-06-23 08:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by frontmann2004 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, a guy doesnt mean it if hes asked you in the middle of sex. Not to say your guy doesn't, but, is that how you invisioned being asked? If he really wants to marry you, and he loves you like he says he does, then he will ask you the propper way. No questions asked. He will appreciate your answer much more because you wont be appalled by the situation of being in the middle of sex. You will be more proned to answering him honestly if you're not naked.
2006-06-23 08:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jessi R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are good he means it. During sex men will say the love you to keep you in bed, but a marriage proposal in the middle of sex ( and he stopped to asked in the middle of sex), sounds like the real deal.
2006-06-23 08:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by LORI W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy's show love in many different ways, this sounds to be true and he wants to marry you.
You need to find another way of communication with him, not during sex. Just sit down with him and have a serious conversation about this and his timing of these types of questions and answers.
2006-06-23 08:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a great thing he asked you that just after returning from his family visit. It means that his sister no longer satisfies him sexually. Marry him and bear his daughters.
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2006-06-23 08:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What differents does it make when he asked you? I dont just ask any woman I run into and I am guessing he dont either. Why when I guy aska woman to marry them it is always well that wasnt romantic. So what!!!! It shouldn't matter when or how he asked, he did ask. I stop while making love to my lady all the time just to say I love you and look deep into her eyes just to show how much I care for her. Did you answer him?
2006-06-23 08:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he missed you while he was away... and thought about it then. Why he would do it in that way who knows... although that is kind of sweet, because while having sex you are very close with that other person and are sharing something very intimate. Sounds like he means it if you ask me.
Congrats.
2006-06-23 08:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kamunyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexually being inside someone is the closest connection you can be with another person. He appears to be true with his feelings. You two together after being away would make the heart grow founder. I would doubt it if the proposal came while he was having an orgasms.
2006-06-23 08:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odds are real good he meant it. It's not official until he gets on one knee with a ring and asks you with both of you wearing clothes. Just wait, he knows what he has to do. He's probably look at rocks as we speak.
2006-06-23 08:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by crystalwitchayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is a lil unromantic but i think he has a hard time asking u when u got ur cloe on ormaybe it's a more relaxed seeting for him to tell u the truth to be sure just say yes to him if u love him back if not move on but if u do love him ask him if he ment it and if ne says yes then say i will marry you however you feel like saying YES won't matter
2006-06-23 08:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋