the fact is that you love her cant seem to let go. even though you cant trust her again you just find that you cant let go. you guys have been dating for a while.
2006-06-23 08:13:01 · 33 answers · asked by steve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUMP HER. Once a cheater always a cheater!!!
2006-06-23 08:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. Sometimes, you just have to let go. You can't always hold on to something forever. The more you hold on, the more you're gonna be hurt. If you don't even trust her, you know that she's probably gonna cheat on you again and hurt you again. Why bother putting yourself through all the pain. Besides, the pain it causes to leave her is probably gonna be way less than the pain you're gonna have to go through if you stay with her.
2006-06-23 08:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by čŖåŻęĤ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. If she has cheated twice, she doesn't respect you, is not commited to you, and probably doesn't feel the same way about you as you do about her. After that you need to figure out what part you played into why she did what she did, so you can reduce the chances of it happening again.
2006-06-23 08:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not love u, if she love u she would not cheat, do both of u a favor and break off the relationship, ur gonna be hurt but its best for both of you. U will find someone better than her who can love u and u only. The sooner u dump her the sooner u can move on with your life. good luck.
2006-06-23 09:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by ms_tat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are kids involved do everything possible to make it work. Seek councelling together, or even try talking it out. Is there a reason she is cheating? Is alcohol a factor? Find the reason, eliminate it, and if that doesn't work maybe it is time to move on.
2006-06-23 08:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
without trust what else is there.i understand that you love her, but stand back and look at the situation doesn't this love look a little one sided to you?, it does to me.talk to her makes sure she feels the same way you do, if she does then ask her why she is cheating on you all the time, there maybe something missing in the relationship that really needs to be there, if she is not feeling the same as you(which is apparent to me she isn't) then you really need to move on to someone that really appreciates the love you are giving to them
2006-06-23 08:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just what is it about this jerkette that you love? Perhaps it is merely the figment of your pronounced imagination. Reality sucks, but reality says put this chick far in your rear view mirror and don't look back. It is either that or accepting the brain damage that is in store with hanging around this "dreamgirl".
2006-06-23 08:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's gonna do it again cause she knows that you will forgive her. or she's just gonna be with you until she finds someone else cause she obviously doesnt' like you. dont' give her the satisfaction of breaking your heart again by dumping you. that's even worse. if i were you i'd take the little bit of pride that you still have and leave her alone, you deserve someone that will be true to you in every sense of the word.
2006-06-23 08:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn how to put closure on relationships. If she has cheated on you twice (that she admitted or you know of) she will do it again. I dont think she respect you and you dont trust her so it will end up in breaking up.
So, be upfront talk to her and put an ending to it.
2006-06-23 08:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a funny thing. It can be everything you want it to be and everything you don't want it to be. I believe you have to follow your heart,then your mind, and then you soul. Your heart my betray you, your mind will guide you (but can fool you), but your soul won't ever fail you. She's cheated twice and that isn't right. Find someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated and respect you.
2006-06-23 08:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by nikkismom0624 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find the strength to leave unless you want to be cheated on again and again.
2006-06-23 08:16:41 · answer #11 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋