Im 20 Single never dated, dont have a gf, not that bad looking , never felt importance for it. Is it normal ?
2006-06-23 08:09:48 · 32 answers · asked by tosstheboss2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
any one interested in me
2006-06-23 08:11:41 · update #1
not that i dont want it, i dont know how to start the spark.
2006-06-23 08:17:44 · update #2
It's time for you to start dating 20 is a little to old to not have been on a date.
2006-06-23 08:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is perfectly normal there are obviously other more important issues that you are dealing with in your life right now and that is a good thing u will know when u found someone that u wanna date and until that time dont let anyone rush you into it cause there is no reason to date until you are ready focus on you first and what u want out of life cause you wont be able to make any one else happy until u find what makes you happy
2006-06-23 08:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I am 19, I have had 3 actual girlfriends, but only 1 that was significant, and now, I really regret ever losing my virginity.
I mean, yeah actually losing it was great, but the person who i shared that with turned out to be a c*ck hungry sl*t. and now, I wish i had waited for someone I really cared about.
so, dont worry about it, and dont let anyone tell you theres anything wrong with that, because the RIGHT girl will be in the same situation as you, and will never have been corrupted by the immature sex that everyone is "supposed" to have.
let me tell you man, of all the girls that I have "hooked up" with, nothing feels as good as caring about someone.
plus, dating is a bltch. you have to worry more about looks than being yourself, you are more of an actor than a suitor
2006-06-23 08:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man it is perfectly normal. lots of guys dont feel the need for a woman until they get older. If you feel like you want to start dating just go out and strike up conversation with a pretty girl. You seem like a nice guy so i doubt youll have any problems. Good Luck.
2006-06-23 08:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, consider yourself very lucky. As soon as you start dating your in for a world of aggrivation and hurt. I have learend that there is no point in dating untill your like like 24, 25 because hopefully the games girls play will be over. Have a blast doing what you want and get everything in order in your life before attempting dating. Trust me you will save yourself a lot of time.
2006-06-23 08:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by allcomcb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats EXTREMELY normal. Which book says you have to date? it depends on what you want. People keep on saying youre old now so start dating. But why would someone do it just for show or just for the sake of it because youre old enough. I think you should do what you like. Im not someone who would do something just because the whole world does. I would only do it if I LIKE it.
2006-06-23 08:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by dog_hell_red 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only 20, sounds to me like you have your priorities in order and have a good head on your shoulders... When you are ready for a girlfriend, start dating.... until then... live your life the way you are right now and you will be just fine (and completely normal by the way)
2006-06-23 08:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by hippiemommy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's perfectly fine cause u have to know what's best for u, no one else can. If u think it's time u start datihng them put yourself out there, talk to ladies who interest you or appeal to u ask them clean questions that would envoke a meaningful conversation and possibly lead u to getting her number if it's obvious that she likes you.
2006-06-23 08:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know that its normal, but i dont think you are necessarily a wierdo, im guessing you are very shy and afraid to approach females. Find yourself a good male friend who seems to be a ldies man and have him hook you up on some doubles!!
2006-06-23 08:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very much ok to me.. because I always say guys under 25 are still very much discovering their own ways..ALot of guys are very happy being single then stick with it.
2006-06-23 08:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by trudie_barraza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋