I was once engaged with the girl of my dreams we were suppose to be getting married this summer, than all of a sudden she gets up and moves away, to a whole different city, we still talk alot on the phone and mail and email. she says she still loves me, but just can't be with me right now, she says she will still marry me. My question is should I wait for her to come around or should I just cut my loses and move in. I did everything for her, i even moved to the darn city she wanted then she leaves me hear and I don't know anyone. grrrrrrrrrrr.
2006-06-23 07:58:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i say lose the wench and move in with me. i will use you and mistreat you. but i will give you 2 weeks notice before i dump you.
2006-06-23 08:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by St. Anthony of Y!Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask her to see what she wants. If you doesn't want to be with you anymore then move on. I can't tell you to just dump her because you obviously love her to have moved for her. Figure out if there isn't a way to be together, if not, start to get over it. Hope everything turns out well.
2006-06-23 15:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by AngelLuv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just move on. that was pretty rotten that she did that to you. even without any notice. i would not marry her if i was you. what if after you get married and she decides to just get up again and leaves. than it will really be hard. just cut the strings and move on. there is more fish out in the sea for you. good luck
2006-06-23 15:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by spicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over her; she's over you! And the more you email and talk on the phone to her the more pathetic you appear to her!
She kicked you in the head and crapped all over you and you want to know if you need to move on? Do it yesterday! What does it take to get a message through to you?
2006-06-23 15:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend wants to marry you, but she moves away, then you move to the city she moved to and she move again. Alarms should be going off here.
2006-06-23 15:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by rosebud1320 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could go both ways. why dont you try to move back to the origin of the realtionship. where you first lived. then go out some. try to meet people where ever you live. if she really loves you then she will be back if not then she was never yours to begin with
2006-06-23 15:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both love each other, you would be together. She would want you to move with her, not just pick up and leave.
2006-06-23 16:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by sundragonjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go visit her to see how she is doing . You gotta talk to her in person u might just hear a different response from her. Aske her family if she still talks about u.
2006-06-23 16:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by 2blessed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved her you shouldn't be asking this question. You wouldn't give is a second thought about waiting on her.
2006-06-23 15:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Only M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...if she leaves you like that...she can't really love you. not in the way that you deserve to be loved. cut loses. she sounds selfish as hell.
2006-06-23 15:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by embigguns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋