Well your obviously not interested in a nice guy wussbag who kisses your *** and calls you 21 times a day and isent interesting and is really a carbon copy of every other wussbag , I seem to get called a jerk nowdays im cocky and funny and i dont do anything a woman wants me to do i tease them and they get intimidated by me what the hell , im i suposed to be a soft shite , really girls what attracts you . Yeh you heard me what REALLY attracts you .
2006-06-23 07:58:08 · 25 answers · asked by badass-mofu 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confidence is attractive, cockiness is not. Just be humble!
2006-06-23 08:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by C. T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be a wimp and bend over backwards, but you also shouldn't be cocky. If you'd just be less cocky, then that would be fine. I'm attracted to hot, funny guys that have the perfect amount of self confidence. Not too much but not too little.
2006-06-23 08:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be youself, there's no use in pretending to be something your not.
I totally agree confident but not cocky!
Eye contact is really important so we know your listening.
It's good to have disagreements but I love it when i'm right (which i usually am), so always make her feel like she's won everytime. It should make her feel bad though and she'll make up for it.
Don't forget to be yourself, because your true colours will come out in the end anyways ;-)
2006-06-23 08:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very attracted by a boy who dresses up smart enough but not nerdy, and who smiles.
I'm attracted by the people who never criticize things or people publicly just to show they're better, I like people who do not hesitate to say that they find people and things great, nice, brilliant...
Attraction grows if the person is enthusiastic and loves things.
To be very attractive this guy needs to be able to talk about various things and be interested in the people around him, and I'm definitely touched by the guys who offer a seat, offer to help in any ways, I know it's old fashioned but I do appreciate elegance.
I'm not saying I want this boy to be my slave, not at all, because I also like a guy who's able to make fun of me if what I say's stupid, I appreciate honesty as long as it is not said in a hurtful manner, and as long as it's real humour.
Last but not least, if this boy I'm attracted to, appears to actually be my boyfriend, I must be attracted by his perfume, smile, and all he does really.Generosity is also a key word.
If I talk about him to other people I must be able to say:"he's very nice, careful, generous and smart".
2006-06-23 08:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by julia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice bum
sense of humour is essential
confidence, tho' not cockiness
long hair, especially black
long legs
motorbikes
talking to me as an equal
touching - just a gentle stroke on the arm or hair
patchouli oil
natural body scent (NOT BO)
2006-06-23 09:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by Patchouli Pammy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obvious that you dont attract them and i can see why (cus your a **** incase you didnt know) at least there is some justice in the world. Im a bit of a softie and im not embarresed to say so always have been always will be but at the end of the day im a softie with a sexy girlfriend and your a cocky prat without one. ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
2006-06-23 11:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally am attracted to nice guys. But i do have to find them physically attractive, funny and on my wavelength.
Having said that, if I dont instantly fancy someone, and they have a great personality, i would change my mind.
And, seriously, women dont want a player who is over cocky, lies and cheats and all that. Most girls HATE it when a man plays hard-to-get. Trust me on that one!
2006-06-23 08:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well every woman is different and is attracted by different things. But what attracts me is a man that is real and aint afraid to show me all sides of him from his mean and crabby side to his happy and loving side. You wanna get a real woman then just be you if she cannot accept you for who you are then she isnt worth nothing anyways she is just a poser and why should you become one just for her sake. So just be yourself u will find someone that really appreciates you for who u are.
2006-06-23 08:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone that can be themself, trying tooo hard is such a turn off! We dont like being teased unless of course ur teasing through inuendo's. The most important thing is - WE ARE ALWAYS RIGHT!!!! xxx
2006-06-23 08:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by mynx8881 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont like it when guys is call me 50 times a day cause that just shows me that he has plenty of time on his ands and dont work. I like a guy who has a great personality and is confident about himself and shows it.
2006-06-23 08:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first, appearance. I go for a nice healthy look and possibly a toned body. Then when I have been talking to him I go for kindness, a willingness to give and take, and someone who respects others.
2006-06-23 08:02:46 · answer #11 · answered by tinkerbell34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋