I really love this girl--- she is my best friend. But she says it cant work out for us. Everytime I talk with her I love her more and more. What should I do if i cant have her and i want her to love me like I do her? Everytime I hear her voice- I feel miserable when I cant be with her.
2006-06-23 07:48:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like a puppy love to me.
By the time it comes, it comes.....
If it don't comes, it don't...
Try to enjoy the feeling of love and miserable...
It makes you feel alive... Romeo
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2006-06-23 07:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by hennis1028 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is your first love, welcome to the club of lost loves. You are not alone. We all have had this happen to them. Think about yourself moping around, not having any fun. Some other girls that know you are noticing your problem but wont say anything until you snap out of your slump. I am afraid that you dont mesh well with this girl you are mad about. If she wants nothing to do with you, grieve for one minute and go out with some friends. You will find another girl who could be ten times better, as lovely, and will like you to be with her. Final answer, sorry dude get over her and move on. There are more girls out there waiting to rip your clothes off. Good Luck!
2006-06-23 07:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by reparmn37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not intrested; it won't work, and you'll end up losing a friend and getting hurt. Just let the feelings die down. Hopefully in the future she'll realize what kind of person you are and the situation will present it's self.
2006-06-23 07:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by They Love ME......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to resolve yourself to the fact that she doesn't feel as you do, and wishing that would change won't make it so. It's HARD to dig someone more than they do you...and it can hurt, but we can't make people love us. Don't throw away your friendship with her because you can't have a romantic relationship with her. The friendship is more valuable and quite likely will be longer lasting than the other ever would.
2006-06-23 07:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do. You can't make people do anything. People are going to do what they do and feel what they feel.
Just accept that and don't feel bad about yourself because of it.
Right now, you're almost obsessing on it because you want to feel validated by her love. You don't need that for validation.
2006-06-23 07:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself less "available". Girls run from needy guys.
Find other female friends. Infrequently drop a quote from one of your other famale friends into a conversation with this friend.
ABOVE ALL; do not pursue her or even let her know you are interested. She is already painfully aware of that!
2006-06-23 07:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im on that situation before but it was not with a friend..its with a guy i love but then he dont love me..yeah it hurts that you can talk and be friends with but then you cant have him..but then thats life..sometimes what you really want you cant have..you know what keeps me holding on to myself? always bare in mind that things happen for a reason...
2006-06-23 07:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i dont know how old u are but if in high school dont date her yet...
wait till out of high school
but best friends make the best boyfriends/girlfriends
you can skip right to being a couple without the awkard getting to know each other stage, they know how you act and react to things that happen and they know all of your secrets and thoughts...hopes and dreams
good luck
2006-06-23 07:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by ifunky_monkey13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey trust me.If she's not intrested then there is no point in continuing the relationship.Find someone else who really cares and loves you.
Good luck.
2006-06-23 07:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, get over it! I may sound harsh but that's life, if she really don't think theres a future with you then theres nothign you can do. You can try to convince her that you have true feelings and to give you a shot.
2006-06-23 07:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋