well it was during a regular day ya i did brake a rib and stuff i went to the hospital but my bf is already showing me new moves he says as soon as i get out of the cast we can start and i really really dont want to lol how should i let him down easy hes very caring and loving but ya hes doone many things for me and telling him no might be harsh please help!! :)
2006-06-23 07:41:36 · 13 answers · asked by Robin N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh ya its about intercourse to :)
2006-06-23 07:42:22 · update #1
Sit him down and develop a clear line of communication with him. You have to tell him how you feel and establish boundaries for what you are willing to do. You might want to give in to some of the simpler ideas, but he needs to understand that you don't want to be a human sex pretzel. Clear communication is what you need. If he can't understand have him take a good long look at your cast again. He needs to accept your feelings the same as you need to accept his, after that you compromise. That doesn't mean you give in, that means you look for an area in between that will work for both of you and go with that. Sex should NEVER result in broken bones!
2006-06-23 07:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what kinda sex are u haveing if u can break a rib, tell me some moves, anyways just tell him no u cant because it hurts
2006-06-23 14:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by whiskey1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are open to experimentation "once and a while" but this time you'd like to jointly choose the positions so you don't end up broken again!
2006-06-23 14:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke a rib having sex??? What the hell position were you in??
Tell him his freakiness needs to wait until you've paid the hospital bill for the last kink-fest
2006-06-23 14:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he has to be gentle with you, you are not a man so something that wouldn't hurt him will probally hurt you, and if you really don't like it tell him how you feel.
2006-06-23 14:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by mj_skater_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are crazy. If I broke my wifes ribs for the purpose of sex she would castrate me!
2006-06-23 14:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he dosent like your ribs, does he not find them attractive enough so wants to destroy them??!tell him you love your body and cant be with a man who dosent appreciate damn in one piece ribs.then give himt he silent treatment for a bit then that'll do it!
2006-06-23 14:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell FreakZilla, that you would be open to anything that does not requie you to break bones!!!! Geez, it does not have to be that ruff!!
2006-06-23 14:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and that he should be ok with you stopping him if it feels dangerous. if he really cares, he will agree
2006-06-23 14:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by happygirl BFFs XOXO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice and tell him that you dont want to do something that would hurt you
2006-06-23 14:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by theone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋