I met this girl in the 8th grade and ever since I've known her I've felt different about this girl than any other girl. I pay attention to her, I hear what she says, and try and help her in any way I can. And this summer I have'nt seen her and I really miss her voice and the little things about her such as her smile and her laugh. I would do anything just to hear her voice. She is one of my best friends and she doesn't know how I feel about her and I want her to know but I don't want her to know. I want her to know because I might actually have a chance with her but I don't want to screw our friendship up. If I have to be friends with her that will be all right but sometimes I can imagine us growing old together.
2006-06-23 07:37:46 · 11 answers · asked by Lil Romeo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I met this girl in the 8th grade and ever since I've known her I've felt different about this girl than any other girl. I pay attention to her, I hear what she says, and try and help her in any way I can. And this summer I have'nt seen her and I really miss her voice and the little things about her such as her smile and her laugh. I would do anything just to hear her voice. She is one of my best friends and she doesn't know how I feel about her and I want her to know but I don't want her to know. I want her to know because I might actually have a chance with her but I don't want to screw our friendship up. If I have to be friends with her that will be all right but sometimes I can imagine us growing old together. Now I am a junior in high school and don't know what to do.
2006-06-23 09:20:02 · update #1
There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me is...
(L)isten: and Validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
2006-06-29 23:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well im currently in the exact situation that your in. I love that guy but i dont know if he like's me. I mean i want to tell him but then again what if he says no. I think you should tell her though because she probably likes you to. Trust me if you are feeling her then she is most likely waiting for you to make the first move. This is so funny cuz were in the exact situation. i met him in 8th grade to and havent seen him since the summer! but we talk on the phone
2006-06-23 14:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Bumblee Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound a lot like first love to me!!!! But real love take time and maturity. I would said take it slowly and be friend. Give it a couple of years to grow, b/c both of you are young. Also, do make friend with other along the way so you will know when you are ready.
2006-06-23 14:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by Passion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to "Webster's New World Dictionary," love is defined as "a strong affection or liking for someone."
According to the "Singapore medical Journal":
Love is defined as the will to extend ones self for the purpose of nurturing ones own or anothers spiritual growth.
Love is defined as outgoing concern for others. As uncommon as this is in today's world, individuals with outgoing concern make personal sacrifices to help others. (unknown)
Love is also respecting the other persons feelings, being honest and upfront, for it sometimes but not always felt the same mutually. Patience is the key my friend. (self)
And of course my favorite: God is LOVE ~.~
Check this out too...http://www.lovetest.com/
2006-06-23 14:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by FreeSpirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't hide your feeling that's bad. Just tell her how you feel sometimes you have to think positive so everything can come out right. But if she says she only wants a friendship well then that's OK to, but at least you got that out of you chest.
2006-06-23 14:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Yandel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel...i know, i've liked my friend jeff since the 7th grade, and i just told him how i felt. i mean he's alot like u, and sounds like u too- but he said he would give me a chance once school started back up which im happy about haha.---- we both agreed that if things dont work out, we can still b friends.----- aww, if only there were more guys like you where i live haha who actually care about their girls- good luck.
2006-06-23 14:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is true and it feels so real no matter what problems occur doing the love you have for each other y'all will stay together forever and the love will grow into eternity.
2006-06-23 14:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer to your question on what is love: read john 3:16
2006-06-23 14:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her... same with me, but she wont listen, Ive told her.. but she just thinks that its weird i told her that i liked her.... she thought that i was nuts & gave me all that Friend Zone SH!T & then a while ago it was just me & her talking no 1 else around (we are really close friends) & i told her that i still liked her... her response was: really? i thought that you were over me....
ok just a qestion how the hell i get around this... & she wont go out with me cause im in the Friend Zone... but then she goes out with a friend of hers... i just think that its all BULL@#$% but hey what are you gonna do.....
any ideas to help me out???
2006-06-23 14:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by Josh R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gota tell her coz u neva knw,she myt be feeling the same way about u...
2006-06-23 14:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by penda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋