Well i have a 12 1/2 year old daughter who has big breast,and a big butt and she is really cute.Her younger sisters tells me things like boys be up in her face,and she be acting different when i'm not around:her language etc,should i be worried about her or is this just pree-tee stuff?I know she is ot active yet.
2006-06-23 07:36:23 · 11 answers · asked by bapalicious@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you should worried about her. This is when the little girls change. Boys hype girls up, give them attention, lust and all this stuff when they mature physically, its what kids do. At this age. she could be influenced to do ANYTHING. so make sure she knows not to go out and be wild, stick to the books and save her virginity for the right man. Teenage boys these days, they only want *some* dont let her fall into that, she is still a kid. :)
2006-06-23 07:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by rice puppy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can chalk some of it up to pre-teen stuff, but you have to keep in mind that she changes her behaviour obviously because she doesn't want you to know. You need to talk to her in a disciplinary, firm, but non-threatening way. You have to be open and honest with her, and you have to set ground rules. Make sure you discuss certain topics with her, and make sure she is well informed. The less information she has, the more trouble she will have. And make sure that there is a strong, well-rounded male in her life, so she understands how men are SUPPOSED to behave. If she only sees bad influences, she is going to think that is normal. She also needs to see you behaving the way a PROPER WOMAN is supposed to behave. Show her how to be independent and proud and confident, without resorting to becoming something that is completely inappropriate for her age.
I wish you all the best of luck.
2006-06-23 09:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by sally mae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be worried. Not only does she already look like a women but she's probably trying to act like one too. Be worried and keep a tight leash. You dont know if she's active yet, you have no idea. My mother didn't know.
2006-06-23 07:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know. You are making a best guess or is it a hope. Talk to her. Ask her what is going on? Ask her to tell you what she is feeling about boys. Share some of your experiences when you were her age.
2006-06-23 07:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by chrome_rider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm a mother of four 13 year old girls, I have talk with my girls about what their body parts means and what's it's for, I tell them about boys and their curiosity what to expect in their life, don't leave your child out there with no clue, only what the world is showing her be a PARENT & please explain sex to her and question her about boys, your be suprise about what you hear.
2006-06-23 07:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Fannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOW IS THE TIME TO REALLY START TALKING TO HER ABOUT BOYS WHAT YOU'VE EXPERIENCED AND WHAT YOU EXSPECT OUT OF HER,I REALLY THINK YOU SHOULD DEVELOP A REAL CLOSE BOND WITH HER CUZ NOW IS THE TIME, ( IM SPEAKING OF EXPERIENCE I ONCE WAS THAT 121/2 YEAR OLD WITH A BRICK HOUSE AND VERY CUTE,IM NOW 24
2006-06-23 07:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by MS.SUGA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be worried you should try talking to her more often. plus, how are you so sure that she is not active yet. be real to yourself and look what the world has become!
2006-06-23 08:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its pre-teen stuff but u do want to watch out for her. if she odes that even only when u'r not there then she could get into some serious trouble with boys
2006-06-23 07:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by holygrail Kniggit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. you should go talk to her and tell her that you're worried
2006-06-23 07:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by ღ♡♥jazzy♥♡ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep a eye on her
2006-06-23 07:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by PP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋