I completely enjoy spending time with the special girl in my life, but sometimes her behavior leaves me perplexed and I dont know how to react.
Are there rules about how to identify what a girl is feeling when she's not making it obvious to a guy or maybe even covering up how she feels? Ex. she's being extremely nice with you when in fact she's mad as hell at you.
If anyone knows of a book that can help me out I'd be grateful.
Thanks
2006-06-23 07:28:42 · 6 answers · asked by unitedsways 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been guilty of that "super nice, but I am really hating you at this moment" kind of behavior. A lot of the time it's because we want you to know why we are upset. Not just that we're pissed- but the reason you pissed us off! It can be tough figuring that one out, I know... And the whole niceness thing is fake, you know that.... we want you to know we are ticked and trying to hide it...
I think most women assume that men are emotionally retarded and think we are making it easier to understand us, when actually we are making it harder. Good Luck with your girl...
2006-06-23 07:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by purrpletoad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only book that will help you understand women is Cosmopolitan Magazine. :) The only way you'll know what shes thinking or how she feels is to ask her. And when she answers you listen to her, not just hear her really listen to what shes saying and take everything she says seriously. Eventually you'll get a feel for her and how she is. Thats about all I can tell you.
2006-06-23 14:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by u_wish1205 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abandon logic, work up a good sense of spite, start giving yourself hormone injections... wait.. no...
sorry man, it's just not gonna happen....
if she does something that makes you upset, she will undoubtably get angry and want you to not get upset with her... however the next time she does it, and you let her know your upset, she will assuradely get upset with you, for not expressing your feelings... after talking and finding out the source of the problem is whatever she did, not your reaction or lack of reaction, she will be mad at you, for making her aware, that she caused the problem...
"how do you write women so well?"
"I think of a man.... and take away reason, and accountability" ~ As Good as it Gets ~ Jack Nicholson
2006-06-23 14:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no way of telling what they are thinking. it's like playing roulette, you might guess right every once and a while...
2006-06-23 14:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by truthteller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try the mars/venus series.
2006-06-23 14:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by horsinround2do 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, "Please tell me how you are really feeling."
2006-06-23 14:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by Oghma Gem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋