Sorry but i've many questions:
Sit at the stage and tip her or not?
Buy a lap dance from her or not? If yes, should I touch her boobs/*** or not?
Compliment her on her looks or not?
Buy her flowers or is it too chessy? Write her a letter showing my interest in her or is it too boring 4 an exotic dancer?
How many times do i need 2 c her b4 askin her 4 her #?
2006-06-23 07:23:57 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r tripping
YOU CANT MAKE A HOE A HOUSEWIFE DUDE
get some game about yourself first
2006-06-23 07:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by St Guido 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, it's not going to work. I am one too, and yeah I'm at work to make money, not get a boyfriend. It's all an act to get money. Maybe I'm lucky because I don't work at a club that allows contact, so other guys will NOT be touching me or they are kicked out. This girl probably goes home and tells her man, or the other girls in the dressing room about the wierdo who keeps asking for her number and sends her flowers. Don't send the flowers, you'll just look like another loser.
For all you naive people out there: strippers aren't dirty because they show there boobs - you have to have sexual contact for that. And when this crazy, exotic breed meets someone they care about they treat their man like any other girlfriend would. They don't rob them of their money and go get themselves a new man when you run out.
We do for money what a lot of you other girls will do at the bar, or a party, for free.
What's wrong with showing your boobs? Everyone has them - even the fat guy.
2006-06-26 15:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by itsjill24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate some of these answers
Strippers ARE people. I mean some of them are single moms tyring to take care of kids, some of them are young nice girls making their way through school. I don't know why everyone is stereotyping saying she will use you, or she's nasty. Not every stripper is a slut. Some are-but alot aren't. People are scared because they don't have the balls to do anything like that. I say go for it, and just like any other girl-you will be able to tell if she is genuinly into you or not. Take her off to the side and ask if you can buy her dinner. If she says no-leave her alone, if she expresses intrest then ask for her #. Don't try to grab her boobs or anything like that-then she won't think that you find her intresting, but only her body. Gosh there are some dumbazz jerks in this place.
2006-06-23 07:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by from me to you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the other comments are just ignorant! Yes some strippers are skanky and scandolous, but what about the ones doing it to make ends meet, put themselves through school, etc. I am not saying that there isn't other work they can be doing - but don't categorize all as golddiggin hoes. If you are really interested in her - don't throw money at here - she gets that all night from men trying to get at her. What until she is off or on break - slip her a number or a note that just says "hoping to get to know you" If she is about something she will respond kindly if not then like everyone said you didn't need/want her anyway.
2006-06-23 07:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by tlynnmcrae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How well do you know her? Do you like her only because she's a stripper and you are physically attracted to her? Think about the time you'll spend together (if you date) outside of strip clubs and bed. If you cannot get along there, the situation won't last long. As her to lunch or some other daytime activity and chat a bit...then you can decide if you still want to be her boyfriend.
2006-06-23 07:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 You never never never ask her out at her work!! You'll be guy number 9999 who asked that.
#2 Most strippers won't date customers so you kind of need to frequent the place less.
#3 Its best to approach her outside of her job (mall, church yes they go to church, park wherever just not at work).
#4 Touching boobs during lap dance = face first on pavement outside and embarrassed.
#5 Do a little research without being to stalkerish find out where she hangs out and act like you don't know her as the stripper. Turn on the charm and you should be in.
2006-06-23 07:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by newburg_2_fine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brother, get her out of the club. Maybe you're just caught up in her being an exotic dancer. Get you a good woman and she'll dance for your in your home without other men seeing her and touching her. Ask yourself this question. How do you feel about other men touching her and trying to take her home for the night.
2006-06-23 07:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by Basilchef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be going into the club first of all!! Wrong move, leave her a note with the bartender along with some flowers..If she is any kind of woman, she is just making a living, she doesn't want to date the guys that frequent those kinds of places. In your note, put in a picture, tell her you are not some crazed killer pervert, and that you would like to take her to coffee sometime. Give her your number and if she is interested let her call you...then back off..........
2006-06-23 07:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think You should do something original, something that she don't see at the club everyday. I'm sure she will enjoy a romentic guy beacause all the guys at the strip club are just some jerks right...
But don't try to play a game, never try to play a game or she'll discover it, you got to be yourself, but anyway try a litlebit romentic side of you and try to be different than the other guys at the club. She will maybe find you weird at first but it's only that way that she can realy loves you. ;)
2006-06-23 07:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by mothman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are trying to get to know her the best way to do it is through a private dance, that leaves room for talk. They are use to men coming on to them so you shouldn't be bashful in telling her about how you feel. She may also think that you are full of it too. Give her you number and tell her to call you. I think it would best if you write a letter including your number. When the opportunity arises give it to her, she has probably heard it all before so always show respect, admiration and be persistent.
2006-06-23 07:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stripper do not like you, they just want her money. But if your really want try- send her flowers to the place, don't go there. Say you really think she pretty and seems like a nice person if she would like to go out- here's my number. And then leave it at that. If she is intersted she'll call but chances are she won't.
Try Myspace.com or Match.com and trying meeting someone else.
2006-06-23 07:27:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋