Does anyone out there know how to cope with the lose of 2 children and your husband? My two year old twins, Annika and EvaLyn, both died in the same fire that killed their father. He was trying to get them all out safely. Me and my 6-year old daughter, Cameron, were out of town visiting family. Now it is just the two of us : (
2006-06-23 07:17:28 · 7 answers · asked by Kate ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Right now we are living in my new apartment in New York City. Our old house was in Long Island. Cameron is always asking if we can go visit our old home site. I don't want to but, it really helps her when we do. She dosen't want to go outside and play, or take a walk, or anything. All she wants to do is visit that home site.
2006-06-23 14:43:53 · update #1
Oh and I'm 6 months pregnant with our 4 child, a son named Henry.
2006-06-24 10:14:57 · update #2
I am SO sorry that happened to you. I can't even imagine how you must be feeling right now. But I can tell you that it would probably be a good thing for you to talk to someone about it - a trained grief counselor would be the best - and let Cameron talk to someone as well. There is no easy answer to this and I'm sure you feel guilty because you weren't there, but it isn't something that you can work out in a short amount of time. It's going to take a while for you and your daughter to be okay. There is no time limit on grief, so just let yourself cry when you need to. If you start feeling hopeless or that you could harm yourself, please go to the emergency room right away and get help.
I will pray for your healing!! Good luck to you and your daughter.
2006-06-23 07:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by headshrinker 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
U need to get counselling form some one u will open to completely. The best solution i can give u in this situation is Jesus Christ he is the only one who can bear ur burdens. Just take this to the lord in pray and i will also pray for u.
2006-06-23 15:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by 2blessed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before considering going to a family counselor, seek the care of your family (parents, brothers, sisters, cousins, etc.), and your friends. they could not give you the answers to everything, but they can definitely give you all the love you need in this time of grief. and don't forget to pray a lot for strength and guidance.
i will pray for you and your kid. God bless.
2006-06-23 14:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Professional Family Couseling. I'll pray for you and your daughter.
2006-06-23 14:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by @J@Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT WORRY GOD IS GREAT HIS PLANS R ALWAYS GREAT HE MUST HAVE PLANNED SUMTHING ELSE 4 U.DO MEDITATION N MOVE FORWARD 2 DISCOVER YOUR NEW LIFE.NW YOUR DAUGHTER IS YOUR WORLD SO MAKE YOUR WORLD BEAUTIFUL.YOUR HUSBAND AND KIDS R WATCHING U THEY CRY N LAUGH WITH YOU SO LIVE 4 THEM .BELIEVE IN GOD N LIVE HAPPILY
GOD BLESS U
2006-06-23 15:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by pearl.oyster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing let your daughter dont feel lack of your love and you not of your daughters
2006-06-23 14:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by smart don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sucks for you...tough sh!t.....
2006-06-23 14:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by raven wants it... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋