You see I recently found out that this guy I like well has a girl friend and I ohnestly do not know what to do because well I guess in my head I thought that just maybe something could happen between us and to be ohnest now that I found out his big secret I am ohnestly so confused I mean I really do not whant him to go out with her but at the same time I myself don't whant to go out with him and I mean it has nothing to do with his looks or anything of the sort. I don't know if this is a normal reaction...., I mean I know I have to let him go but ohnestly I don't know how and I know that eventually I will..., just because I know how I am. How do I get over this ? I really just whant him to be happy and if she is the one how can I let him go? plz... help..! and nothing negative thanx
2006-06-23 07:11:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STAY AWAY FAR FAR AWAY
2006-06-23 07:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should find some one else every girl is beautiful and can convince other guys your a beautiful girl Im sure you will find some one else. yust keep lookink the world is fuul of good looking guys hey i understand this happen to me in except with a girl it feels horrible just remember there other guys there that like you. yust look out ythere and when you see someone out there you like get flirtatious your girl you know how to convince let them come to you
2006-06-23 14:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by PP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why so hard to let go? You said "this guy I like", not that you'd dated, or had sex, or anything other than be attracted to him. He's seeing someone else. Don't waste your energy pining over someone who's made a choice. He's not available, and if he comes on to you while dating someone else...is that really the kind of guy you'd want to be with? Move on...
2006-06-23 14:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things you have no control over. I suggest you get this out of your mind and find someone else. Life is short so don't waste another day on this. Let it go and get alife. LOL
2006-06-23 14:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask me! I haven't had a date or been laid in over 15 years 'cause y'all are too busy doin' each other!
2006-06-23 14:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by warrentalb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's your problem with the word honest? you're mentally challenged, aren't you? not because you can't spell, but look at your question, i mean, read it aloud and then think about how it sounds
2006-06-23 14:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had him first and you have to respect that. And think of it like this, he lied to you about his gf, plus he was cheating on the both of you. If he did it to his gf, he will also do it to you to.
2006-06-23 14:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept the relationship as a friendship and look for someone available and unattached.
2006-06-23 14:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by JerseyBleu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy. You are cute, so you will have tons of guys to choose from.
2006-06-23 14:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by ndmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like he is the one for you, Just move on!!
2006-06-23 14:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by Sabrina D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, has he been leading you on or what? if he has a gf then leave him alone... there are too many men out there. good luck.
2006-06-23 14:14:51 · answer #11 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋