yall like a guy that is caring and nice, or cocky and busy
2006-06-23 06:46:45 · 15 answers · asked by musclepack23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A mix of all ?
2006-06-23 06:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by ezgisito 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy that is caring and nice because that's attractive to me.
2006-06-23 06:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Chocolate gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of it has to do with confidence. The “alpha male” type is invariably confident – though not usually in a terribly cocky way – and confidence is the sexiest thing a man can have. If a man is confident in himself and his abilities – chances are I can be too, but if even he is unsure of himself – then I should be much more wary of him as well.
Not only is confidence sexy, but lacking confidence guarantees failure. A confident guy will ask almost any girl out – and she may go out with him as a result (she may not but that is life). The guy who lacks confidence, who never asks the girl out – will never date her. I have lusted after a LOT of guys who I know liked me, but who never got up the courage to ask me out. If you saw the last Harry Potter film, or read the books, think about why Hermione(?) didn’t go to the dance with Harry – not because she did not want to go with Harry, she obviously wanted to go with Harry, but Harry was too afraid to ask her – and so she settled for going with the lout who DID have the balls to ask her.
Most girls, are terribly insecure and more than any thing else, want attention, they want to be wanted by men. The thing is, that very frequently the guys who are “alpha male” types – the ones who tend to be more violent, and abusive to others, are also the ones who are least afraid to express their desires for a girl. The “nice guys” the ones who “play by the rules” are more likely to believe that they need to “respect” a girl by not expressing and keeping his “desire” for a girl in check.
A part of this also has to do with the myth that girls don’t like sex – the “bad boy” doesn’t care if she doesn’t like sex, he is going to get his anyway – and in the process satisfy the girl. The “nice guy” will “respect” a girl and not satisfy either of them.
2006-06-23 06:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by ***** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
caring and nice. cocky boys are total jerks!
2006-06-23 06:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by FIREHAZARD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Caring and nice...
2006-06-23 06:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by BlondeBooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
caring and nice
2006-06-23 07:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by Judith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice and caring
2006-06-23 06:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
caring and nice
2006-06-23 06:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by lakergirl443 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Caring and nice. But one that plays sports. And one that's really cute. And sexy.
2006-06-23 06:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by Krista~Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry caring and nice but strong and hard working
2006-06-23 06:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by Charnele B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
caring & nice.
2006-06-23 06:49:17 · answer #11 · answered by manda_panda9642 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋