I've known this girl for 8 months. I have recently decided that I am in love with her. Back when I met her..I told her I liked her but only because she noticed me being odd after she went back out with her ex. They lasted 2 weeks then broke up. We've had arguments that damaged our friendship because of me liking her...she just does not like me like that. But...these past few weeks, she's been more sexually active with me. She wanted a makeout day, we've had phone sex, and we talk about just stuff for hours on the phone. My problem is, when I ask why cant we go out...she says people will "talk" yet could not give me a more specific answer. Now her best friend wants her to go out with this guy..and I am jealous as ****. Now...before you come to the conclusions that she is a whore or something...she's not. I know her pretty damn well. Its just this whole feelings thing is getting to my head. Maybe someone can give me advice.
2006-06-23 06:38:47 · 7 answers · asked by Papa Shango5000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is leading you on. if she really wanted to be with you she would have decided to go out with you a long time ago. she is using you. i know you care about her but at the very least stop messing around with her until she tells you what she wants. she is playing with your emotions and she knows it. thats not right.
2006-06-23 06:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Hez 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not gonna say she is a whore, actually she's just a typical chick and likes attention. See the thing is a woman wants to feel wanted and appreciated and even though she doesn't have those kinds of feelings for you she knows you think of her as more than a friend and that makes it much easier to turn to you when the whole "dating" scene is a little slow. And because you are friends she feels comfortable with you, see with you she gets the best of both worlds: male attention without having to go through the whole getting to know a person stage. My advice, go out and find someone who won't play with you like that, you deserve better.
2006-06-23 13:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...lets be realistic...if she wanted to have sex with you...she would have! women decide within five min's of meeting youwhether or not youre gonna have sex. Next the more you say...the more youre gonna kill your chance to get laid. Women analyize EVERYTHING you say and choose to focus on the things that make you the wrong choice to have sex with. If a woman hasnt had sex with you within the first three dates SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU! Women LOVE attention, so she'll string you along and give you a lil to keep you wanting more and to keep you around because it makes her feel desireable. It's the same reason HOT chicks have ugly friends... its makes them feel good about themselves and look good in comparison to their friends. You need to buck up... find someone thats hot and im willing to bet you once she sees that she is no longer the center of your universe... she'll do EVERYTHING to get you back.... you have to love YOU!
2006-06-23 13:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by artist1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be following one of my rules. NEVER date anyone you work with because if anything happens you have to see each other every single day.
And,
You need to get a grip on the being mad and jealous crap. You'll never get anywhere with that...
2006-06-23 13:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
discuss everything with her and things come out positive, go ahead, or leave her
2006-06-23 13:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by umed s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit down and talk to her tell her how you feel and tell her to be honest about her feelings.
2006-06-23 13:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by penguinlunatic17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her how you feel
2006-06-23 13:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋