I seem to have trouble finding love. I've only had two dates in my life and i never got past second base. Is this a bad thing?
2006-06-23 06:32:33 · 29 answers · asked by lonely_wolf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What r u worried about - that you'll never find someone? Are your buddies worried about you? Are girls treating you bad, or just ignoring you? Where is it written, you must find love before you turn 18 - or 20 or 30 or even before you die?
Assuming you are happy with the other areas of your life, career, education, social life/friends, religion/spirituality, hobbies/adventure/video games, just enjoy being single while it lasts, for real! Read some books on romance, relationships, marriage, dating, etc. and you'll discover a world out there that isn't all roses and chocolates.
Hang in there, don't lose hope, don't let your situation keep you from enjoying life with all its ups and downs, highs and lows, friends and enemies, lovers and haters, joys and pains. One thing that kept me going through my 20's without a serious relationship is my friends, including woman friends.
2006-06-23 06:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by im_a_fun_nut 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not. Don't feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to do. Just take your time and decide what you really want to do and who you would like to do it with. Contrary to what most people think virginity is still something sacred. When you find the right person would not have to worry about getting past second base and I'm sure you would not want to be packed with STD's by then.
2006-06-23 13:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by EIliot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm 18 and still a virgin, and it's not because I've vowed to save it for marriage. Lots of people have trouble finding love. In fact, most people our age don't date as much as they say they do. One, two, or three dates is pretty damn normal.
2006-06-23 13:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by akatd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not a bad thing. It's good to wait until you're ready, and only you can determine when you're really ready. Keep dating out there. The more dates you go on, the more likely you are to find someone you can develop a meaningful relationship with and someone you can lose your virginity with as well. Good luck!
2006-06-23 13:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin is NOT a bad thing. The best sex you can have is with someone who you love and care for and who feels the same way about you. If you haven't found that person yet, you're lucky that you haven't wasted sex on someone who doesn't deserve it. Once you find the right person, it will be worth the wait.
2006-06-23 13:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by the reporter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It shows that you have respect for women and don't "force" (in a manner of speaking) them into bed. You do it on their terms and when they want to. Sex is not an indication of love...its more of a...pleasurable byproduct. Just trust me, give it some time and when you find a girl that you click with and she clicks back, there'll be a point where you'll get past second base...more times than you cna count.
2006-06-23 13:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 18 what is the rush. It is not a bad thing that you are holding on too you virgin, I hope it's because you are waiting for the rightl girl. You are young enough to still date around, be patience your time will come. Remember to practice safe sex.
2006-06-23 13:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by loveNromance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO its not a bad thing cause I'm 18 and still a virgin your not the only one that hasn't found love.
2006-06-23 13:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand this society..why would you be a "loser" if you are still a virgin?? Boy, I suggest you wait for that special someone, be patient and then get married before having sex. Don't try to rush things just so you wont feel left behind.
IT'S NOT A BAD THING..AT ALL!
2006-06-23 13:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by ♥JCluvsu2!♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will be 18 and i am still a virgin. i have had 0 dates in my life.
2006-06-23 13:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by penguinlunatic17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋