Your situation:
You have a boyfriend who is either in the Army or Marine Corp. and he is called off for 1 year. He asks you to wait for him to decide if you will get married or decide how things will go when you get back.
6 months after he has left this even cuter guy is really interested in you and you are both very compatible and you are starting too really like him. You tell him you have a boyfriend but he says he will not give up on you and unlike your boyfriend he will not leave you. He also tells you that you do not have to worry about this happening ever again as with your current boyfriend. Do you break up with your military boyfriend and go out with the new guy? Do you stay with your boyfriend and wait for him to get back to decide what will happen? What do you do?
P.S. Are you older than 25 y/o?
2006-06-23 06:31:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, let's see...is your military boyfriend worth waiting for? and, is the military lifestyle a life you want to be a part of? these are questions you need to answer for yourself....there is nothing to guarantee that when he returns, you guys continue to hit it off and develop a long term relationship...and if you wait, you may have missed out on this other person...you need to decide your fate, what is right for you....take it slow with the other guy, see what develops
2006-06-23 06:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by twentythree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stay faithful to your military boyfriend, and keep in touch with your new friend. He needs your support in his time away. Think if you went away for a while to come back with your boyfriend with a different girl! Your new friend should respect the fact that you already have a boyfriend and not try to "win you over".
2006-06-23 06:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 28.
Ok, so you dont want her to wait for her military man? Not right. Those in the military have so much to contend with that this will just add to their worries about what is happening at home that they have no control over. If this is you, please dont force her to choose, just be her friend. If you were the guy in the military, you wouldnt appreciate some guy from home trying to sway your girl away from you. Be friends, let her decide and dont pressure her. Besides, even if she does choose you now, she may dump you in 6 months when he comes home. Somthing to think about.
2006-06-23 06:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Simplystunning 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I unquestionably have no problems with this one *additionally, do no longer talk approximately your ex-boyfriends. We by no ability have, nor ever will understand or like them, nor do we could desire to take heed to approximately them. once you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous. you're asking your boyfriend to lose have faith. they are component of their lives and prefer it or no longer, they contributed to them starting to be to be the guy they are. i can not say that i might by no ability like or understand somebody i do no longer comprehend because of the fact they previous have been in a relationship with somebody I care approximately. sounds decide for to procure some can provide for dates, it is nice to work available are some people who appreciate the genuine gents.
2016-12-08 11:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are really in love with your boyfriend that you are with now then you can wait .. time is nothing when it comes to love. but if you think that this new guy is alot better then talk to your boyfriend and ask him what he thinks might become of you two and if he can not answer you then you should know what to do ... you leave him and go out with the new guy. if you think you can't wait for him.. but think about it first do you love your b/f are you in love with him? only your heart can really answer that.
2006-06-23 06:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by BabyBear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called cheating...
Don't candy coat it....be a woman about it. Or just break up with the guy before he leaves...but don't beat around the bush...War is bad enough without being lied to (get that Mr. President)..and for the record. He'll meet another woman...and yes, eventually get over you. So, be honest...not just when it's convenient for you!
2006-06-23 06:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by mr_phatdique 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would totally stay with my boyfriend for one thing i hardly know and I love my boyfriend I love my boyfriend in real life too.
2006-06-23 06:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by allienstone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am 22 ... wel if my bf called it off for a year i wil give the other guy a chance, anyway i ddnt ask my bf to give an off between us its him.
2006-06-23 06:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not do that to my boyfriend if he is in the millatry cuase he would need support
2006-06-23 06:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by *♥BABII~K♥* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋