my x and i broke up several months ago, we still keep in contact with each other just the other day she was asking to hang out to show some pics, so i remember she has some of my paperwork from before so i decided to go and pick them up, the original date plan she pull a disappearing act then she calls me the next day with an excuse that something happen to her mother, so i went to pick it up at her place and when i called her she told me she might not be there to give it to me so i needed topick it up from the door man, but later i found out she was actually there i dont understand this
can someone help me out on this on why she did this?
i didnt go over there to plead with her or argue
should i contact her? or leave her alone
2006-06-23 06:30:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she may have someone living with her and she don't want u to know about it.
2006-06-23 06:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you got back your paperwork then leave her alone. Basically a phone goes two ways. If she wants to talk to you let her initiate it. I'd say move on and hope she decides to get in contact with you again.
2006-06-23 13:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think leave her alone. that is the oldest trick in the book
see. she did want you to get your paperwork, but she had company at the time. she didn't want you to come up because she still has feelings for you, and doesn't' want to hurt you. or maybe she thinks you would have flipped out and gotten jealous if she was there with someone else.
anyway. i wouldn't call her. let her come to you. then you will see where her heart really is.
2006-06-23 13:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by lnhymon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just leave it alone...she needs to make up her mind and figure out what she wants and stop playing games w/ you. Wait for her to call you and explain her situation to you.
2006-06-23 13:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by roxy100986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could it be that after several months she is still in love with you and doesn't want to see you? maybe having contact with you makes her sad. the two of you broke up maybe she wants to be alone.
2006-06-23 13:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes being an a s s hole and playing games with you...girls suck sometimes..we like being evil..if you really really need that paperwork go grab it but if it's not essential just leave her be..
2006-06-23 13:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by LONG ISLAND GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY DUDE! SHE DOESN'T WANT TO SEE YOU! How much does she have to do?? Look she's trying to be nice. Just let go and find another woman, will ya. Move on.
2006-06-23 13:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her like a bad habit. Not worth it at all. Find someone that won't bulls$*t.
2006-06-23 13:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by strizzaight_trippin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to be treated in a respectful manner and this girl isnt treating you well. Ditch her. She doesnt deserve you. GOod luck.
2006-06-23 13:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by Simplystunning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she still likes you and seeing you would hurt her and bring back memories....
ask her to mail them 2 u... it would be easier..
<3
2006-06-23 13:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by Navy.Brat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing games she wants to see u tell her to come over but have someone with u
2006-06-23 13:34:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋