me because i wouldn't change my ways did he really love me or was he jus frontin?
2006-06-23 06:16:49 · 18 answers · asked by lakergirl443 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he gave you an option and you chose the one that put you in this position. I believed he loved you and if you loved him you would have met him half way. Which shows the result
2006-06-23 06:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does really care about you but he might have not had strong feelings as in "love" and maybe thought that you didn't have the same feelings as he did. But just thought that being close friends would be better i'm sure if you really mean the world to him the way he says he does he'll always care about you and always be by your side no matter what. dont get all worked up about it there are many other guys out there esp if you feel that you can't find anyone else.
2006-06-23 13:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by ash6lei2a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf did not love you if it was conditional, lakergirl. People who love each other share their worlds and accept each other as they are. That doesn't mean that they cannot help each other to grow and become better people. But love does not say, "You must be like this or I'm leaving." There is a word for this attitude... it's called selfish.
Be glad and rejoice that this "man" broke up with you. You now have the opportunity to find a real man who understands what love means. Good luck, lakergirl.
2006-06-23 13:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are you different with out him or are you happy it is over you should not be asking that question you should be asking something like did i really love him or so i really want to change for this guy and settle down or stuff like that
i think in my ind i think he was frontin and don't bother with him if notices you change don't go back look out world her she comes!!
2006-06-23 13:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by Faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was frontin and straight up fake and that's tha truth because he was just wantin to be mean to you.
2006-06-23 14:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by Chocolate gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just frontin! Move on
2006-06-23 13:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wanted in your pants. JUST like Mom tried to tell you but you wouldn't listen... Don't believe a BOY when he says I love you.
It really means
"I love to you get you in the back seat of my car"
2006-06-23 13:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didnt love you - if you love someone you love them for who they are and dont try to change them!
Hes the loser think of him like this and you will find it easier to move on and find a man who really loves you for who you are and not try and change a sinlge thing about you honey!!
2006-06-23 13:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mel.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have loved you what where your ways he wanted you to change-if you love someone then you usually accept them the way they are
2006-06-23 13:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just saying those things to eventually try to sleep with you. You don't have to change for anyone, but yourself. And when you do change make it for the better! Forget him, he's obviously not mature!
2006-06-23 13:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋