He left about 7 months ago and he hasn't wrote me in almost 2 months. I feel so alone with out him. He promise he will come back but I don't think he will.
2006-06-23 06:01:45 · 7 answers · asked by sweetheart1000000000000000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound so sad. First let me clear the clouds a bit for you. Yes, he is coming back. Promise or no promise if he has family in the area he is coming back. Second, boot camp is strenous, difficult and time consuming and to be honest with you, most young men doing this don't have the time nor energy to sit down and write their loved ones or sweethearts letters. Most men can only concentrate on the task at hand. He is giving this boot camp 100% that means you are taking the back seat during this time. He has taken this job seriously and it is serious. He has taken the job of defending our Country.
I would be thinking after 2 months of no contact that he does not love me or care about me too, but you have to think about what his new job entails.
When he comes home from boot camp, be proud of him, don't lay any guilt on him. He is looking for validation. Once home a day or two then talk to him calmly letting him know how you felt when you did not hear from him, and ask why he could not write you or call you. Don't fear the worst until you have spoken to him.
Give him the benefit of the doubt. He will be home soon.
2006-06-23 06:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by You got Moxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't written in 2 months, it's time to move on. Mine went to bootcamp and wrote me a few times a week.
2006-06-23 06:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it military bootcamp? Or bad kid bootcamp? Anyway, during bootcamp they don't have anytime to write really. My brother who's a Marine wrote all his letters while he was suppose to be sleeping. Keep your chin up though, maybe he will respond soon.
2006-06-23 06:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him you would wait. However,I do understand your anxiety. If he is in love with you he will come back. If he does not return that means you were not meant to be... Good luck
2006-06-23 06:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by Richgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till that his reply.
if you want only friendship contact me.
do not feel lonely.
it will not help you.
listen music.
read books.
that will help you a lot.
take care always
have a good day.
regards
Rayer
2006-06-23 06:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by rayer_1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok find a next man
2006-06-23 06:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.
2006-06-23 06:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋