I can honestly say that all the relationships that I've been in have ended becauses goldiggers are out to get my money and dont love me for me. I bought my ex gf a BMW 540i for her bday and my ex ex gf a diamond for our anniversary. I just don't understand why this keeps happening...let me know if there is something i can do.
2006-06-23 06:01:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're choosing all the wrong girls. Do you come from money or did you make your own? Or is it some from column A and column B? I come from money and my boyfriend does too. And he makes a ton of it on his own. I've never been obsessed with finding a rich guy, or having Daddy take care of me long after I'm grown up. I went to college and work my butt off in advertising. You need to look for women who come from a similar background to you, and who work legitimately for the money they make. Sure, they might not make even close to what you make, but if they're ambitious on their own, they'll be less likely to dig for your gold. You sound like a very nice, generous person and I hope you find a woman who sees you for you when she looks at you, not dollar signs. Not all women are gold-diggers. I'd love my man no matter what because he treats me with the respect and love I've always dreamed of having, and to me, that's more priceless than anything he's ever given me or could give me. Good luck to you!
2006-06-23 06:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never ever let a girl know u have $$$$ cause she will always want the $$ and not u. Love is more important then money. Money cant get u everything u want in life. Date a girl for a while and don't shower her with way to many gifts. Get to know the girl first before u buy her the cars and diamonds.
2006-06-23 13:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by dizzygirltiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be your taste in women. Or maybe thats what is attractive about you- is your money. The only things you can do about it is just don't buy cars and diamonds for your girlfriends unless you truly feel they love you for you. And be more careful about the kind of girls you date and get involved with.
Maybe its the way you present yourself, I went on a date with this guy, 1st date took me to a very expensive over priced restruant, talked about money and work and how he came from money- on and on- that wasn't what I was interested in so I refused to go on a second date with him. Maybe you talk about your money too much so the only girls that stick around are the ones that are looking for that? I don't know.... you'll have to look at your own actions and choices to figure this one out.
2006-06-23 13:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say that there are lots of sharks out there after your money, and what I would do is hang out with a girl for a while, dont buy any elaborate gifts and find out if shes "worthy" then if you have spent some time together, then let her in on the money thing, she will be happy and love you for you, and not your money!!
2006-06-23 13:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by Christine K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get an old car. use it and dont mention yr money. take the next girl out in the old care everytime. dont mention money if possiable. get to know her personality first and then maybe if she honest and you feel she is right slowly let her know. stop lavishing gifts. this is not the way. good luck with finding someone that will love you not what you have
2006-06-23 13:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by yumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your making money an issue with the big gifts try doing something new like going different places so your meeting new people keep it more low key give with your heart and head not your cheque book
2006-06-23 13:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by corinna G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop buying them such expensive gifts. If you act like you are trying to buy someones love you are going to end up with girls who are after your money.
2006-06-23 13:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Christine F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop spending money on them until you are sure they love you for you. If they do love you for you, they will like simple gifts. Just keep it simple.
2006-06-23 13:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop spending so much money ,you are sending the Wrong message!
2006-06-23 13:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by belizeigram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dating the wrong women!
2006-06-23 13:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋