my sister and me welll lets just say were DIFFERENT! shes into the boyish kinda things and im the girly girl...she thinks that i like my brother more then her but i dont i loveeee her with all my heart but she wont listen...it makes me soo sadd when some1 i love thinks i dont love them...i need helpp
2006-06-23 05:23:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sister-to-sister love? no big deal just be good to her.
2006-06-23 05:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my sister are kind of this way also. But she's never accused me of loving anyone more. Were just into different things but the one thing I always remember is she is my sister and I know she loves me, so I don't even hesitate to tell her the same thing. Just say how you feel and move on, no need to hold a huge speech or gather a crowd. Sometimes the best things are said in small words. Good luck!!
2006-06-23 05:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by Barbie doll lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I understand what you are going through - I have 4 sisters, only one of which I am close to, but to help you answer your question - have you tried just doing something for her out of the blue that will demonstrate how much you love her. Like, if she plays softball, just show up at a game to watch it and don't make a big deal about it. Is there something that she is really good at that you would love to know how to do, but you were afraid to ask, because it is not something you are normally comfortable with? Well, move out of your comfort zone just a little bit and ask her to show you, really get into it - if you find that you really like it - never do anything to try to please anyone that you do not truly enjoy, it will just look like you are trying.
2006-06-23 05:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by auntb629 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes words don't work. It's gonna take time. Love is an action. Something you do. (I don't know if you're a christian but I am so deal with the following.)
Little Children, let us not love by word or by tongue but by action and by deed.
That's a verse in the bible. You have to show her that you love her and she may not realize it right away. Be patient and gentle. Its the little things that sometimes mean the most.
2006-06-23 05:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being spontaneous is the most beautiful thing you heart can show, just go, hug her ant tell her believe me or not I truly love you with all my heart and I am bless to have a sister like you, and don't wait for a answer, this will make her mind and heart to move.
2006-06-23 05:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by nemodelmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Say I Love You======
2006-06-23 05:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so it doesn't matter if she's into boy stuff and you're into girly girl stuff because she knows that you love her in the inside but you just don't show her like you can do at least one activity with her! and tell her that you love her while you're doing the activity! well i'm into boy stuff but i dress like a girly girl and i act like a girly boyish girl because i'm tuff and i like to play with guys because some girly girls they complain to much about everything people do notice that! hey and if you hang out with the guys you get a big chance with going out with them and you'll have them following you everywhere trustme! and i think that's why your sister hangs out with guys but i'm just sayin! but you have to really show your sister that you love her because later in life she might not want anything of you and she might not want your children and that's what happens in life when it's to late!
2006-06-23 05:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be into the kind of things she might like. Or are we asking about something else? Sorry. Just tell her you love her. She's your sister.
2006-06-23 05:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by Man_With_No_Name 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like your cousin? i do no longer think of that's going to artwork! Her sister is your cousin too, so i'm specific that's why she is growing to be issues. i could get the sentiments out of your head and discover somebody else asap!
2017-01-02 06:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to show an interest in some of her hobbies, and share some of yours with her. My sis and I are very different, but as we've gotten older we've realized just how similar we are in many ways.
2006-06-23 05:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by Christine F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take them out to a ball game or buy them something but don't write a love note or any thing like that
2006-06-23 05:27:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋