Did you ever date someone and find out later they were married?

Question

If you were still dating this person when you found out, how did you respond? Did you?

Answer 1

Yes this happened to me years ago. I was dating and having sex with a man who I totally lusted over (and he had equal lust for me). After driving me home one night from our date he said he was married. I was flabbergasted. The real kicker was that he was married just 5 WEEKS before the first time he asked me out. I nearly fell out of the car. We broke up of course, but I didn't understand how he could be with me nearly Every night for the past 2 months. He was a newlywed! He told me he loved two women - both me and his wife. Like I said, I ended it, but never really forgave him.

I married a wonderful man 15 months later and we had a terrific, loving marriage. My husband passed away 4 years ago. Now that I'm dating again my main rule, that I never break is: "I don't do married men."

Answer 2

Yes, I dated a guy for 6 months before I found out he was married. His wife was away in school so we never had that whole can't call or come over his house thing. But one day, I noticed a letter from the school she was going to and I asked him about it and he told me. I was heart broken because I was really starting to love him. But I had to end it because "THEY NEVER LEAVE THEIR WIVES, NEVER." I still think about him to this day and the happen 6 years ago. I even think I still love him, but if I have it to do all over again, I would make the same choice.

Answer 3

Yes, and it was very hurtful. I wanted to believe that it was going to be a great relationship! Then, the day came when I found out, and not by him. His friend slipped and called me the wrong name. I asked later whose name that was because it was no where near my name. He talked in circles and never revealed a thing. Later the next day, I confronted the friend that slipped and he told me. What a way to find out. Thank goodness for caller id! I never talked to im again.

Answer 4

Nope, but I did date a guy and found out he was like 10 years older than what he said. Honestly he looked young. I sugguest looking every guy up on publicdata before getting serious.

Answer 5

I dated this guy once and found out through another friend he was married. Would you believe it she got mad at me. I didn't even know he was married. He was lying to me and his wife. I dropped him like a bad habit.

Answer 6

That happened to me when i was 25, nothing really physical had taken place yet thank god, just you know making out and oral on me, when i found out i ended it right then and there i may be alot of things but a home wrecker i ain't.

Answer 7

Yes and it was a terrible experience. At first he tried to lie about it making all these crazy excuses but I finally got smart and ended it. Very difficult time for me because I did really care about him.

Answer 8

Yep, it's happened to me. We only went out a few times and always met wherever we were having dinner. My response was that I never again answered the phone when I saw it was him calling.

Answer 9

yes.....and when i found out, he knew he was caught.....i was in a restaurant with some friends, and he strolls in with his wife and kids.....he saw me, and had this deer in the headlights look on his face.....i didn't say anything, i just left it alone.....if he can't be faithful to his wife it will catch up to him eventually, no need for me to cause a scene in front of his kids and the other ppl in the restaurant....but i never spoke to him again....

Answer 10

I had met this one guy...we had only gone out a few times...i got a call from his "wife" and "girlfriend"...That alone was enough for me to stop any communication with him. I didn't need that kind of drama....