we've been dating for more than a year now,but he has never mentioned anything about it ,just found out on my own. when i confronted him he said that he never said anything coz he loves me and didn't want to hurt me,that i wasn't supposed to know about it,but can a child be hidden. The baby was born just last week but up to now he has said nothing,just heard it from a friend. i love him but do you think he is worth it.My friends have told me to leave him.But what do you think?
2006-06-23 04:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by chookiecheeks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me understand this, he got another girl pregnant while you two are dating?
You know the answer, tell him to go be a father, and stop ignoring what he has done. It wont just go away.
Find yourself a man who is willing to step up to the plate on his own responsibilities.
Starting over is hard, but worth it in this situation.
2006-06-23 05:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me with this? He never MENTIONED he has a newborn? It's not like he went to a party on a friday night and forgot tell you about it, ITS A BABY for criing out loud, and he did not mention it. If that does not speak for his character, I don't know what it would take you to WAKE UP!
You just got smacked in the face with a disaster, is that how you want to end up? Pregnant, from a guy who may or may not MENTION IT? That is your sign, take it and GET THE F****** OUT.
Seriously, life presents itself with signs,
!
1) A whisper in our ear
2) A loud call to our brain
3) A brick wall
4) A disaster
If you made it past the first three, you are headed for disaster and it may be to late then
2006-06-23 05:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by lil am_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend slept with and impregnated another woman, omission is the same as lying. I would leave him, so he doesn't have a second chance to hurt me again.
2006-06-23 05:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by babybrownsugar34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you and only you and didn't want to hurt you he wouldn't have slept with another woman. He has responsibilites that he has to own up to-so leave him and let him go make his bed.
2006-06-23 05:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sharp Marble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he kept something like this from you..i would say leave him and don't look back.He kept a huge thing from you. If he reallly loves you he wouldn't have cheated on you and then kept it a secret
2006-06-23 05:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by maeghan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, and don't look back. If he cheated once, a good chance he would do it again if sex presented itself to him.
2006-06-23 04:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, once a cheater always a cheater
2006-06-23 06:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by tilda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, he cheated on u so how could he love u???
2006-06-23 04:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-06-23 05:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his a**!
2006-06-23 05:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋